What to do with your mean husband?

Question

I tried all my best to cook dinner for my husband and it seems like he gives me negative comments every time doesn't even appreciate it. I feel frustrated and discourage and I did try to talk to him about it, WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

Tell him to either take you out or to get in the kitchen and do up something better.... He should be so lucky.

Answer 2

try not cooking him dinner

Answer 3

I'd stop cooking.  In fact, I'd turn all the burners OFF!  Nothin for him!!!

Answer 4

You gots to tell that boii who is boss.

No way Carlita is he gonna get away with you gruntin an workin as he just sits around on his keishter,

Answer 5

Stop cooking for him. Telling him this is what complaining gets. If he can do better, he is now the designated cook. And if he cooks and its good, let him cook. If it sucks, complain back. And if he doesn't want to cook...cool for yourself and just leave him some HungryMan frozen dinners in the freezer to help himself too (:

Answer 6

You'd seem like a wonderful wife ;). I see that your husband isn't appreciating your cooking, perhaps you should try something a little different. Maybe such as not cooking for him, and see how he feels, seeing as how he makes you feel bad. Another solution would probably try to cook something out of the ordinary, something new, vibrant, and different for the both of you. What types of food do you cook? Maybe you should spice up your dinners, and make it spark!

I hope the best for you, and if your husband can't accept your cooking, then I guess he shouldn't deserver to eat it. =)

-take it ez & hope everything goes well.

Answer 7

last time my hubby did that, he made his own dinner for a few nights...after that, his tune changed.  

Answer 8

You place his dinner down in front of him and perkily say "Tell me I'm charming for cooking you dinner!" Do it often enough and they learn to respond with appropriate flattery :) If he won't say it, tell him even perkier, that you'll eat it for him if he doesn't. If he still doesn't, grab his steak and take a bite!

Answer 9

if he wont talk about it, maybe try writing him a letter?

Answer 10

I've heard this victim excuse from women with low self esteem so many time. Girl, you are not fooling any smart guy out there. You said or did something to make him mad. Period.  

Answer 11

Again not to much information.

Assuming you have not been married long or this has been a ongoing issue, tell him to cook , help you cook, or shut up and eat, if it's good enough for you it should be good enough for him. or he can show you how he does it.

  And don't you even let him be mean to you, I can't stand it when couples are disrespectful to each other and then just say I'm sorry and then do it again. you have to stand up for yourself and remind him that you are both in a partnership and he will act accordingly . Good Luck