What to say to a friend who's being cheated on (she knows she's being cheated on)?

Question

she's told me about it but i never know what to say i say move on but she says she doesn't want to but this is a problem because i kinda like her and i want to ask her out but i dont no when to ask her if she's still upset

Answer 1

dont ask her out and dont say move on cause your being selfish makeing your friend brake up with her bf so you can get her. just tell her to confront her bf

Answer 2

" Girl lk, It hurts to c u like this, u diserv much better n u shouldn't b treated like that.

That guy is taking u for granted he has no idea wot his got, So i just think u should move on to b happy... "

Well i think thats too much but thats wot i could come up with.

Say wots in ur heart, n if she's worth it than wait for her never date her wen she is in a mess,,,,

Answer 3

Be there for her; it's definitely difficult to go through something like that, especially if you know you're being cheated on but you don't know what to do. She obviously still loves this boy very much, otherwise she would've ended her relationship with him.

If you ask her out now, she'll be upset. It'll make you seem like you don't care about her situation and her heartbreak. Even if you ask her right after she breaks up with this boy, she'll still be upset. Wait until her heart has mended enough to ask her out.

You just have to be there with her and comfort her. You don't really have to say anything to her; just being there next to her will show her how much you care. But you CAN tell her to confront her boyfriend; it's definitely not right to cheat on someone, especially if you do it with the other person knowing.

-Dee

Answer 4

ask her out that way you can show her not all guys are scum bags

and if you like her then you should  make it advious to her dont wait until she is so crushed by this guy and she gives up on all men and if you love her kick this gus *** cause its jerks like him that give all guys bad names  

Answer 5

Just leave it. If she knows he is cheating on her, no one has to say more and give her any more heartache.  Just tell her, if she ever does break up with him to let you know, that you would love to take her out, but only when she is through with him.  That might let her know that someone does care about her, and would enjoy her company. Don't pursue it any farther, and leave it up to her.  

Answer 6

Believe this, when she gets tired of being cheated on, she will leave. Otherwise, do not tell her to "leave" her boyfriend. Instead listen to her and be there as a friend.  When they break up (and they will), just simply tell her that you want to take her out on a date to clear her mind. Once you all have dated for a while, let her know how you feel about her.  Just a warning though, sometimes telling a friend how you feel about them (romantically) can damage a friendship and sometimes it may enhance it. So be prepared.

This same scenario happened to me. One of my good guy friends eventually told me his feelings and though we remained friends for a little while longer, we eventually wasn't close as we were.  Another friend of mine told her guy friend how she felt about him and they dated for a few years and has been married for 8 years now. So, it depends on the people and their feelings.  Hope yours work out.