My best friend has been married for three years to a guy who (at least over the last 6 months) has threatened her with divorce every few weeks. Every time it happens she is crushed and calls me. They've got some serious problems. He has cheated on her several times, he's had a prescription drug problem, she just had a baby 4 months ago, and she's not very interested in s*x, he lies about money to her...just to name a few. I hate to be a pessimist, but I do think they are on their way to divorce. When she calls me though, I don't know what to say. He's told her he wants a divorce, but most likely he is going to come back and say he didn't mean it within a day or two. She has tried to drag him to counseling with no success. He is a jerk, a poor excuse for a father or husband, but I don't want to say that to her because they are probably going to make up in a few days.....and there I am.....having just called him a jerk. How do you deal with this? I want to help my friend and give her good advice, but she doesn't listen to me anyway, and I end up looking bad if I say anything.
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