What to you is more important? Advice please?

Question

Txting/replying to a txt or msn message / having a conversation with/from your Girlfriend

or

talking to some other random person online about nothing important, choosing that hour when she can txt/talk to tidy your bedroom when you could do it at any other time that day.

Is he even worth complaining about, I'm after a serious relationship and he says he is yet I can barely have a conversation with him and he's nearly always too busy to reply to my txts. Whenever I try to talk to him about anything he changes the subject or just watches the tv or his face goes all distant.

It really upsets me, I have the most incredible feelings for this guy yet it's as if he can't be bothered with me.

Answer 1

Sounds like he isn't the right one for you... move on... there are better guys out there.

Answer 2

Regardless of how busy a person claims to be, it takes two seconds to answer a text if they really want to, so if hes not making the effort to do so then are you sure hes worth bothering with?

Its ilke - if you like someone - you're going to do what you can to reply to them right?

xx

Answer 3

What is lacking here, and desperately needs to be resolved, if you are going to stand a chance of a relationship, never mind how serious you want it to develop into, is communication.

Set aside a time when you can be together, alone with no distractions, and no chance of being disturbed, and talk to each other. Not just chit chat, but really thrash out where this relationship is going ( if anywhere) and how both of you are going to sort things out.

Clearly you are committed, but from what you write, quite frankly ( in my opinion) he's taking the p*ss, and while he's got things like they are, probably couldn't give a monkeys.

Quite clearly,while things are like this, I don't believe the relationship will develop into what you need, want or deserve, and surely, you deserve better than that.

If he isn't prepared to meet you at least half way, get rid and find someone who will give you the love, care and respect you deserve.

Mike t.

Answer 4

I know that it must be very frustrating for you, but quite obviously there are one of two things going on here;

1) That he knows how you feel about him and he feels quite differently about you

OR

2) He is quite unaware how you feel about him.

If option 1 applies, drop him like a wet rag

If option 2 applies, please let him know without a doubt how you feel.

Answer 5

You should go round to your boyfriend asap and find out exactly where you stand with this relationship -if you actually DO have one!

It does sound like he isn't as ready for anything serious, as you are -so if you don't want to get your feelings hurt, I suggest you look for another partner, who will return your intense feelings.

Don't waste your time, just move on and find a real Man X

Answer 6

sorry to be this blunt, cos i know u like him a whole lot to have tabled it here.bielive me, he isnt into u anymore. get anotherboyfriend. no one is irreplacable.meanwhile i rather chat radomly online, cos i like my sanity of mind. galfriends r so very unreliable, they want me to be like them, n like my ways.ciao