What topics are best avoided over a romantic dinners?

Question

We both have interesting jobs, but I dont like talking about my trade in avaiation industry.. when I leave work, I like to forget it exists till I return the next day..IS this wrong?.. What are the best topics to talk over? and please dont suggest weather... what a put off.

Answer 1

diseases

Answer 2

Discussions are a tough one when it comes to going out. Try to talk about each others interests. Don't just sit there and yes him to death, respond and compliment, and throw in your opinion once and a while (don't seem bossy on over-opinionated). If he likes to go to art galleries for example, maybe it would be wise to go to one before the dinner to have that as a conversational topic for the duration of the meal. Activities that interest the both of you can always save one from having a boring and awkward romantic meal. Romantic dining is a complex issue and its OK to be confused about it, and believe me, it can get so very awkward at times. (you are right, weather is NOT the thing to talk about)!!! Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Topics to avoid: ex-relationships, diseases, and don't bring your cell phone.  Since this is a romantic dinner, I'd be interested more of your dreams and aspirations.  Where are you going from here.  Where you've been matters, yes, but I want to hear what's going to be you in the next one year, three, or five years.  It tells me if I want to be a part of that and or if I want to see you achieve it.

Answer 4

Well, it's a tough question.  You could make interesting dinner conversation, and after every witty remark over dinner, you smile.   She grimaces.  You smile again, she's put off.  You go home, she shakes hands, says good night, you walk in the house, look in the mirror, and smile and notice that there's a big piece of spinach stuck to your front tooth.  Go with the flow, you just never know.

Answer 5

It's okay to talk about your job, just make sure that all table converstation is not centered around that one topic.  Other topics to make sure to avoid are:  parents, past relationships, the weather, and pets... unless you're both animal lovers.  

But the topic of conversation can also depend on how long you are in the relationship with that person, and the kind of relationship that it is.

Answer 6

Never ever talk about your ex boyfriends. Ask questions about your date..people love talking about them selves and if you show interest in the other you will surly be liked. It will give you an insight into them also.

Answer 7

Traveling, Movies, Music, learn more about what the person likes...Especially if this is your first date with the person...

Take care..

Bcn_mimosa from Barcelona, Spain

Answer 8

Talk about your family, commom interests and hobbies. However, don't talk about previous romantic relationships, and don't talk so much about yourself and your interests that that other person can't get a word in edgewise.

Answer 9

Movies, Current events, travels, hobbies, goals

Answer 10

The number one thing you will want to avoid would be your past relationships. Also, stay away from religion and politics.