What turns you off about a man?

Question

And no..anything that judges by looks will not be chosen as best answer....how a man acts...Becuase it could probably be some hot rich guy who thinks a woman is below him and some ugly poor guy who would do anything for a woman

Answer 1

Misogyny and willful ignorance.  But that turns me off in women too.

Answer 2

a guy who is very self concerned and ignorant. if i can't have a conversation with him about more than one topic (especially if that one topic is him), i could never date him.

Answer 3

For me

Womemizing

Cockyness

Thinking a womens place is in a kitchen, cleaning, and taking care of babies.

Rich snobs are the worst.

Answer 4

well i do agree looks will not be choosen as best answer but it is a big issue and most men think there better than the woman there with or like but what turns me off about a man is a man that stunts like he's better than you or like he really doesn't like you or act out in front of the there friends but i like men who doesn't have alot of money because he'll do an thing to keeo you by his side and he would feel that were equal and he's not better than me.

Answer 5

Egocentrism, misogynistic tendencies (or misandric tendencies), ignorance, cowardice, selfishness....

Actually, it would take a long time to list all the things that I find unattractive in a man. So here's what I like:

Kindness, Intelligence, Equitable tendencies, modesty (but not too modest), self-confidence, and they have to like me back for who I am.

Answer 6

Users.

Answer 7

How a man acts....Aggressive, 'real man', ignorant, prejudice, egotistical, vain.

Answer 8

I don't think looks really matter. Personally I have a Hiking test. I could never be w/ a guy that quit a hike the second it got hard. If he complains a lot and focuses only on hardships during the hike then he fails. But if he pushes past any discomfort and finishes the hike, or does his best to do so, then he passes. It's a great test, cause you're having fun while doing it, and you get to see the real person.

The number one thing that i can't stand in a guy tho is disrespect. I'm not sayin I need to be treated like a princess, cause I don't even want that, but that I need to know that he values my opinions and is proud of me, just like I will value his opinions and be proud of his successes.

Answer 9

Turn offs: wanting s*x before marriage If you truly want it..you'll marry me.

Cheating of any kind, drug abuse, gluttony aka if you're a fat slob it means you don't care about yourself. You only get one body keep it in good shape. ps I practice what I preach I look dang good. I'm 30+ and my date tonite was 25. So, obviously, I  look f'ing good for my age, or no 25 yr old who looks like a model would be asking me out.

Not working when you can work,but the opposite is true too..being a workaholic is just as bad.

Oh and just being stupid is the worst.

Dang I'm ol' fashioned!

Answer 10

Since I am a man, and very heterosexual, I must say, I am turned off (physically and sexually) by all men.  

That's just the way I am.  

So I am probably not very helpful to you in your quest.  

I do see your point about some s****. men coming on as superior, while the less-fortunate man is back in the wings.

What turns you off about one type of man will reverse itself with the other type of man.

Answer 11

Hey there, Mr. Boogy.

Here's what turns me off about a man. Okay, three things:

1) MANWHORE. (i just posted a question related to this, actually-- BIG turn off)

2) Conceitedness. I don't care how rich you are, or how good looking, or how intelligent, or how whatever... keep it humble and don't think you're above anyone.

3) Nice guys who are clingy. I want someone to discuss things with, to argue a little bit, to learn things from, not a yes-man. I want the guy to be part of my life, NOT my entire life and I'd like to be part of his life (a big part, granted) but not his entire life either.

Does that help? :)

Answer 12

Well it is not a certain thing it is more of a type of man which is those thug types or playa wannabes...They don't realize they are living a unreal lifestyle and that they won't be able to keep this up forever. And also I would hate to have my children grow up in that kind of lifestyle.monkey see monkey do....feel me

Answer 13

Extreme need to dominate and indifference or cruelty.

Answer 14

I don't find either option appealing.  Someone who would do anything (I don't like being put on a pedestal or worshipped), or someone who thinks I'm below him wouldn't entice me.

I like someone I can just kick back, chill and talk with, if that makes sense..as if we're on the same page. One doesn't have to be better than the other.

Someone who has drastically different views than me or doesn't understand me would be a turn-off, but that's something I would have to find out after getting to know a person.

I don't like guys who call me weird, b/c that means they're probably mundane themselves. I prefer men with some sort of eccentricness or excitement to them.

EDIT: But "doing anything for you" means predictability and someone just catering to the snap of my fingers? I had an ex like that, and I didn't like it. It was like having a servant or something..not a boyfriend.

Just my preference.