What type of friend is she?

Question

I have a friend who is a few yrs older than me because of our age differance she doesn't want to spend that much time with me. she is a good friend and has never done anything to hurt me and never would. she is kind of in the " in crowd" spends her weekends at the bars, drinks at home, or goes to parties. although she has never pushed me to come with her or drink i feel like i need to be that kind of person to feel accepted by her. how do i talk to her?

Answer 1

Tell her how you feel, if she doesn't agree with you and if she thinks your opinion is wrong then maybe she isn't a true friend...

Also you shouldn't think that you should be accepted by her, if she is drinking all the time and at parties and whatever and that isn't what your into, then DON'T do it and there are a lot of other friends out there, you only need one *true* friend!

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Answer 2

well u be yourself dont go if u font wana and live ure life to the fullest

Answer 3

you should never have to do what other people do to be accepted. be yourself. sometimes we don't like the answers that people give us, so just ask her if the reason she really feels distant from you is because you don't do the things she does. sometimes the real truth comes out by being forward.

Answer 4

kool

Answer 5

Well, considering that you're not her age, just try to be yourself, and if she doesn't hang out with you, forget it. She's a not so good friend. If she has other friends to hang out with, let her do so.

Answer 6

No you don't have to do as she's doing to be friends with her. First of all if she's a true friend then she'll realize that because she's old enough to do all those things and hangs with the "in crowd" you were her friend before those guys. She may think that having you around those people you'll do just what you said and  drink and get in trouble trying to get into bars and clubs you aren't legally old enough to be in. In a way that's a good thing that you aren't hanging out with your friend and that crowd they aren't as cool  as you think or smart if that's their life's goal to be of age drink and party all the time.

Answer 7

you dont have to change yourself for people to accept you.. if they dont accept you for who you are then they aren't worth as friends and your probably better off.. and you shouldnt do what you dont want to do.. dont do somethin just so you can fit in.. be yourself and everythin will b just fine