What types of gifts should I send to a friend?

Question

What are some types of gifts you can buy to make up things to a friend who is no longer speaking to you, after repeated attempts of emailing her? I did not want to do flowers or anything like that. I was thinking of a charm for her charm bracelet or a charm bracelet full of charms of her favorite things. Another idea was a cd that had a bunch of I am sorry songs on there. I also thought about sending her her favorite book as a child, but a special edition version of it. Or should I just not send anything and leave it alone?

Answer 1

Do not send anything to her in terms of a gift - it will NOT be well-received in the situation you describe.

The only thing you should even consider sending her is perhaps a sincere letter of apology from your heart.  Do not expect to hear anything back - she may not wish to hear from you at all - she may or may not have deleted your e-mails without reading them, she may or may not tear up your letter without reading it.  Just write to her from the heart ONE time. Leave the ball in her court after sending a sincere apology.

If she does not repsond at all, move on.  Sending any kind of material gift at this time borders on stalking - give her her space and let the choice whether to forgive or not be hers. Good luck!

Answer 2

ok, why aren't you two speakin? and buy the person a gift card to thier fav restaurant or store and hang out with them and make it known that you are tryin to start a new friendship with them.k

Answer 3

It's time to move on.  If you did not do what she claims, you did, then do not continue to waste your time trying to convince her of such.  It sounds like you will be proving yourself to her for a very long time.

Cut your loss and move on.

Answer 4

If you tried to make amends time to let go. She is not willing to move past it  and wont respond.

Heres my story::: (below)

You did all you could. I had to let a so called friend/coworker go for FALSE accusations that she thought I wanted her husband I dont beleive in playing on the side and she became furious because her husband admitted he liked me. She told me she was jealuse of me because i am pretty (I look like my avator)

I am HAPPILY MARRIED AND WOULD NEVER DO THAT. I was strictly platonic with him. He is not my type and nothing would ever be there. PERIOD

I told her till i was blue in the face she WOULD NOT LET IT GO and she kept treating me horribly. I told her unless she got proffessional help and turned to God I wanted nothing to do with her. I would not let someone continually treat me like c**p.

1 year later I sent her a Christmas card did not hear anything back I did ALL I COULD.

I also realized she had mental problems and so did he.he was in the psych ward seeral times during thier engagment.

My messege to you is this if you did ALL YOU COULD to be at peace with her and she doesnt let it rest and put it behind her then let her go.

Let her wallow in her own bitterness.

i also realized I was not the first she did this to with her own craziness she would talk about AND JOKe about another person (that person  was chunky) and she was rude to (when we where friends). She is VERY PALE WITH NO COLOR and not very attractive. She is very insecure about herself.

It has been 4 yrs and my life is so much better without her.

Answer 5

Things can't buy back trust or love.

Answer 6

You could personally dress in costume and deliver your own singing telegram , people love it when you make a fool of yourself for their benefit. Good Luck

Answer 7

send something that would clearly remind her of u, or give her something she always wanted..sending nothing is giving her the mesaage that you give up and you will never talk to her either..

Answer 8

First of all, what is the reason that she is no longer speaking to you? That's important because she may feel like you've done something that is unforgivable. I would send her a card or letter, but again, it depends on what you did; only you know how bad it was. A gift isn't enough to buy back a friendship. It she doesn't respond to the card/letter leave her alone. She's made her feelings clear.