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Question

He came by to get my hubby's cell number. I gave it to him on the back of my business card.

My husband will tell him that he won't be home, and it seem like he intentionally stops by then.

one time they were going to meet at our house then go fishing. My husband told him not to leave his hour for 20 min and to wait outside for him because I wasn't descent. He was at our him in 5 min. knocking on our door, thinking I wouldn't be dressed.

NOW, I have been having someone calling my cell from "private number" with heavy breathing like they are masturbating. It sounds just like him. The cell phone company claims they can't get the number.

I can't say 100% sure it's him, but it only started happening after I gave him my card AND it sounds JUST like him.

It really freaks me out. I have 2 lil' ones and he scares me. My hubby doesn't hang with him anymore, but other people I know do.

What should I do?

Answer 1

wow. well i think you should ignore the call's, when they call you dont answer them cause that will cause them to call you more cause that person knows your going to keep answering. so i think you should forget about it, dont mind it, & dont answer private calls.

Answer 2

You should tell your husband, maybe he can get to the bottom of it.

Answer 3

Great idea. When he calls blare a very loud obnoxious horn (air horn) into the phone. They are around $5 and I PROMISE you that after he gets that noise ringing in his ear for a week he'll stop. Don't say your doing it just "BOOM" let him have it. I did this and never heard back from the loser.

Answer 4

wow what a physco

Answer 5

Wow, I am sorry this is happening to you. Here are some options:

1] Change your phone number so that he cannot harass you anymore.

2] Contact the police. When children are in the household, it becomes a more serious matter.

3] Tell your husband to go have a firm talking-to with him. If your husband holds his ground, maybe he will stop.

I hope one of these things work.

Answer 6

cant your husband stick up for you?

and comfront him, im just saying hypothetically speaking if i was your husband or someone elses and someone i know was doin this to my wife,you best believe i would be knockin on the guys door or calling him and flipping out. just my opinion get your husband involved.

Answer 7

call he police

Answer 8

First, call the cell phone company back and get the number. Let me tell you how. It might take a couple of tries, (you need to get the right person on the other end). I know that they won't tell you who the call was from. But ask the cell phone person if you can "guess" who the calls are coming from. Just say this sleeze bags name and see what kind of reaction you get from the cell phone person. You'll know by their response.

I did this once, and it worked for me. The lady that I was talking to said "I can't give you the name". I said could I guess the name. And again she said "Well I can't tell you the name" I guessed it and she gave me a response to the affirmative.

Try it and see if it works. If it's the creep, then call the cops after that.  

Answer 9

report it to the police now

Answer 10

keep away from him he might be one of those freaks who would go as far as stalking you..........and hubby? i dont like that word. it bugs me so

Answer 11

have your husband tell him to stop and if he doesnt and you no its him then you can file a police report if you think he'll try to do something