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What was the most hurtful thing your partner ever did to you?

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There's too many!

But, mostly.. after a year of him trying to get me to want to have a baby, after being separated for a while and reconciling.. I became pregnant. And he told me I HAD to get an abortion... when HE is the one who wanted to have a child... Yeah, that hurt like h**l.

When he walked out on me when I was 6 months pregnant with our child, so he could sleep with TWO of his father gf's daughters... that hurt when I learned the truth!!!

And when he, after reconciling once again, walked out on me and my son, taking money in my personnal account that was intended for my son's daycare, so he could go live with his mistress,who happened to live behind us.. yeah, that HURT! Also him getting his mistress pregnant after 3 or 4 months with her and being SUPER happy about it,when he wasn<T when he had BEGGED me to become pregnant... and then turned around and got mad at me for being pregnant...

My...well, ex-partner now... did too much hurtful things! hehehe... but, they are idiots in this world, and he's one of them;)
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i was the master of ceremonies at an important function. i could not leave but the S****y ho left the event with another guy.she gave the house key to the vice president. i was totally humiliated.
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Well, in my case, it was a few things.

1.  Made comments about my weight in a negative way.  One thing I have learned in my old age is... you can never 'unhear' the spoken word.  I cannot pretend I didn't hear him say something, and now I make sure I am not naked in front of him.  It's not like I am huge, but it hurt me that he would vocalize the issue.

2.  Drank too much, way too often.



We wrote into our vows "to make choices that are best for the both of us".  When he drinks so much that he can't talk, those are not choices for the both of us.  When the going gets tough... toughen up, don't drink... it solves nothing.

Thanks for letting me vent :) and also for making me realize.. he is human, and never has he ever done anything horrible to me or to us.  Thanks for helping me put my life in prospective!
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I've never had a 'partner' but I would say that the worst thing a partner could do was cheat on you and then lie about it.
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This is when we were young and just started relationship, he lived with his parents. A lady had been staying there, supposed to be his brother's friend, but who knows really, and she asked if she could sleep in our bed. Then he actually asked me the same question and I got very mad at him then left.
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My ex husband routinely accused me of having affairs, although I never did. It was very hurtful to me to realize that no matter what I did or said, no matter how hard I tried to prove that I was faithful and show him that he was the only one for me, he still believed I was cheating and found it necessary to accuse me.
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My ex husband snapped one day when we were married and physically attacked me.. I'd have to say that ripped me to the core of who I am.. to have laid next to this man and shared a life for 7 years, and never saw that he could come at me with such violence..to see cold blooded murder in his eyes.. and then during the divorce, to realize that for years, he had been secretly setting things up in preparation for a divorce, hiding assets, changing titles.. etc.. to know that everything I thought about him was all an illusion.. I really don't know how I could trust someone 100% again.. I'll always wonder when they would snap too..
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The most hurtful thing my bf has done to me is continously talk to an old flame who is "just a friend"...I am not the controlling type, i dont care that he talks to her occasionally or talks to his ex(s) every now n then but continously? That part don't hurt me- the part that he completely ignores me after hes talking to her or whiles he IMing her does..and the part where he don't want to be intiminate afterwards too...

she sends him emails, IMs and text messages..and for the most part he responds to them..

well by far that has been the most hurtful

with the exception of what he said to her when we were still dating but i didnt live with him at the time

he said " i would be with you if i really could...no doubt about it" he said to her...when we were still dating!

that by far is the MOST HURTFUL thing he has said!
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a month before a big fight with my boyfriend he mentioned about getting married.. so i feel overwhelmed that time because i never thought he would take the relationship seriously, beacuse at first i was not so sure of my feelings for him.. one time we had a big fight that makes me decide to settle down with him and i told him, and the relationship goes on and on till now without legally settled :( it hurts for me that he's so busy with his work that he can't find time to fix everything for our marriage.. : it hurts
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she bit the head and made me bleed
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Take his Mother's side instead of mine on child raising issues. Ouch.
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She wanted us to get married.

I was ok about this, but I didn't exactly start planning it with a lot of energy, so it didn't happen.

A year or so later, she wore a nice dress I hadn't seen before. When I complimented her on it, she told me it was one she'd bought for our wedding.

:(
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she used me and it put me in a big financial hole. the worst was she had here 11 year old kid use me and the fact that i loved her like my own really hurt
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Lock me out of the house with no way when I was 8 month pregnant and had our 3 yr old daughter with me. He turned off all lights so I couldnt see in the dark and just about fell flat on my face! All because I had to get out of the house to breathe because we had been arguing all night and during the arguement called me nothing but a ******* *****!
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When we were going through a tough spot early on in our relationship, he told another girl that he had a crush on her and that it was probably because his relationship with me was going through a tough spot. He realized right afterwards that he really wanted to be with me, and nothing happened, but it was still very hurtful at the time.
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she cheated on me while i was working two jobs and going to college full time. i was trying to provide a stable foundation for us to move to the next level.

Im glad she did it in a way, because now i se her for who she really is, but i now have serious trust issues that have developed.
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my ex tried to smother me with pillow after a argument and he was not even playing
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she told me I was a loser and that she didnt consider me a man that hurt pretty bad
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Married for a long time with children, and even though we have had ups and downs, hubby set up interenet profiles looking for s*x, but claims he just did it for ego and venting during an angry time in our marriage and he as just upset with me and said he would never act on it. I still am so hurt just to know that in his mind I was not enough or that he couldn't come to me and find a way to talk about it....and to feel the way I do now is I always wonder if he was ever with someone and he says he wasn't, but I don't believe him...my trust is gone, that hurts a lot. I am so unhappy.
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He's cheated on me, became a total slob and drunk, did absolutely nothing to help me when I was going through chemo and radiation treatments on a daily basis. Expected me to continue to do things for him when I wasn't even able to take care of myself, and lastly he just left me two weeks ago for another woman. Now I can be happy again. Single lung cancer survivor!!!!
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he hit me twice during anger

was more humiliating than painful

the second time it happened..thats when i stop loving him..
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She married me . Thats where it all started .
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my dumb as husband cheated with his baby momma and now she's saying that he son is his. he has 2 girls with me a girl with his first ex and a girl with the baby momma he cheated with. now all of a sudden a boy comes. BULLS**T. he dont know what to do cuz he has all these girls and every guy wants a son. A**HOLE!! lol
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