What was wrong with what I did?

Question

I had trying to get hold of my sister children(14,12,7,4 &2 that she had asked me too check on ) in VA (to check up with them cause I know my sis is at school and leaves rather early and arrives rather late) for 5 1/2 hours and no response after a few rings it would go to voice mail. So I called non emergency line in Norfolk to see if they could send out and officer to check if the kids where okay.

This is what I got:

Our phone got messed up when (name edited) knocked the unit out of the wall. I was at my clinicals today. I was not at the school. The kids are fine. I didnt have a way to leave you an email. I did inform you about my clinicals. Chris is very pissed. He was already here when the police came to the house from your report (thanks. hope to return the favor some day.) He came home early when he tried to call at lunch and didnt get a hold of the kids.

The Police advised: That they where advised that the phone number had been changed.

Her husband accuses me of being unstable mentally and physically and trashes me(yet I came home one day from work and found him wearing my best dress and not to mention he stole money from my then, 8 year old son and my mother when he moved in with my sister.). I have to live in their house cause his failure to put her and the kids on paperwork led to him being sent to Japan without them and me taking her in got me kicked out of my rental house after the landlord agreed that her kids could stay briefly.

Answer 1

LOL omg there mad cuz u were lookin out for them no oofence to ure sis but there stupid

Answer 2

Im sorry, I am not for to be understanding this question.....

Answer 3

Your post is really incoherent.  You may have dedicated a lot of time to your sister's family, but there may also be some validity to her husband's claim that you are in need of mental help.  How she raises her children is HER problem, not yours.  You need to focus on taking care of yourself.

Answer 4

you did NOTHING WRONG. you were just worried. and she should be happy you were. your sister and her husband sound like b*****s. sorry, but they do. some people are just like that, even to family, they don't care about anything you've done for them.

Answer 5

You were not wrong for what you did.He should have THANKED you for being concerned about his kids.

Answer 6

Your sister is grown. Stop worrying about her, or her kids. If she loses them, thats HER problem. NOT yours. You only called the police to have them check because you were worried, as no one answered, and she ASKED you to check on her kids.

Let her, and her husband check on their own children from now on, in fact.. change YOUR phone number so that she can't call you, and MOVE somewhere that she doesn't know where you live.

From now on, focus on YOU, and YOUR LIFE. Not theirs. The kids are at ages where theres teenagers in the mix, believe me they won't let mom ignore them too badly without raising a big stink.

You can keep the same email address, so she can contact you if you want.. but no more helping her out! Not until she stops letting her man disrespect you.

As for why they got mad, when nothing was wrong. Who knows? Maybe the police drove up and caught him in HER best dress.