What was your hardest age so far, and how did you act?

Question

So far mine has been 13, my 7th grade year, and I'm now 14. I completely changed then as a person and still hold some of those traits. I used to be a big ole' prep. I started liking emoish things when I was around 12. I started getting really depressed, and my moods were like a bipolar persons. I almost killed myself, and my types of depression kept changing from like a screaming depression to a soft sad one. I was going to give more but right now I'm very unconcentrated and do not feel like typing, but trust me, this story would go on forever. Anyway, please tell me about you. Thank you :)

Answer 1

Wait until you turn 30 and then you have to start paying mortages, budgeting money, paying for bills and going to a job you hate.  You have NOTHING to complain about little one.  

Answer 2

My 7th grade was really difficult, as i changed school: I was accepted to a 6-grade high school. you know: new class, new people, trying to do your best, you just start to get more and more tired, depressed. it was better in the 8th grade but was still quite difficult. than after the end of the 8th grade i went to southampton to an english camp and i've met a lot of people from different cultures, my view about the world changed a lot and i think i've also changed some. i prefer the new-me =)

Answer 3

14 I guess...I was really insecure about pretty much everything...but it only lasted a few months!

Answer 4

12. i hated being 12...

Answer 5

Your only 14.. You should be thinking bout school and video games lol Just think life goes on moods come and go. It gets harder as you get older. Soon you have to think about moving out on your own how your going to pay all your bills getting into college.. all that good candy. Trust me the world goes on past 14.  

Answer 6

I want to say 13 because I made so many bad choices and made the wrong friends  

Answer 7

No offence but I dont want to, I dont even want to think about it

but my hardest years were 12-13 and 16-17, ill say that much

Answer 8

really i use to be a big prep in 3rd grade i like emoish things

in 5th grade i was a prep when i turn 12 that was the hardest for me people stop talking to me ignoring me i tried to kill mmyself

but not anymore so I'm don't like labeling but I'm the only goth at my school all the emos are posers so i use to be depress try getting help?

Answer 9

Well I'm 14 right now. It's really hard. But 13 was hard too.

I'm not sure :[

I'm kinda down for the moment.

But I was feeling GREAT, AMAZING weeks ago!

I'm sure I'll be better soon :)

Answer 10

1 because i cant remember much of it.

Answer 11

I had a bad run from about age 11 - 13 where I couldn't control my emotions (I started menstrating at a very young age which made it hard to cope with all the extra emotions).  But that cleared up.  

Then I had a second bad run at 18 when I started to want to be my own person and my parents wouldn't let me, so I tended to rebel a little

Answer 12

When I was in the 7th grade, 13.

I still am but now I am going on to 8th grade =)

I don't know.

7th grade is usually the hardest year 'cause your grades count for High School, and for me grades aren't a huge issue. I do well. Really really well. But I was really nervous and irritated about getting excellent grades. My parents wanted me to get a 97 average and so I was really pressured.

I had a lot of fights with my 'friends'.

We are a small grade and I go to a private school and so we are 22 girls in the grade so we are in 1 class and it totally sucked!!

The boys have 2 classes....

Anyways, the kids in my school love to wear brand names and stuff and I am not into that really and so I got into a HUGE fight over something RIDICULOUS with a good friend and then I lost another friend =(

& so I told my mom to buy me a cute jacket thing from Aero and she did and then my so called 'friends' talked how they think that I think I am so cool and awesome. & yea...

& the kids are also fairly jealous of me. My parents are quite wealthy. We own a few houses... we are moving into a huge house. People call it a mansion and my parents own a flower shop.....they are always busy with weddings and stuff...

& so most of it is jealousy!

Also my average is a 97. It was since 6th grade since we got grades and since 1st grade through 5th grade I got Excellent in 99% of the report card...

There was a LOT of drama in the 7th grade. Kids like to talk behind my back and stuff but this year I won't let it bother me.

Also, this year I will hang out a lot, go to the movies and enjoy unlike last year that I worked my butt off.

I had a HARD year in the 7th grade!

Dealing with friendships, school, and home.... I would yell at my sisters for disturbing when I was studying for tests....

Hopefully this year I won't have as many tests and as many homework...

Although I have to take the SSAT test in October!

I m NOT prepared at all.

Just a little =(

I need to study a lot now!

Well I was depressed a lot and I can tell because of songs I wrote in many notebooks scattered in my closet! haha

*STAR*

Answer 13

13. I tried to be popular and wear Aeropostale, Holliser, A&F. I don't anymore because the "popular" girls talked about me behind my back, and I had less friends.  I now have more friends, and don't care what people think. I shop wherever has cute clothes that I LIKE!

Answer 14

Oh, definately 13. I was just really confused! I felt really alone a lot and people were changing a lot faster than I was. Things suddenly got really weird and I vented to my diary a lot. I'm 15 right now and happier than ever! When I read back on those days, I could tell I was really depressed. I'm glad things are better!

Edit: OMG, and my friend was raped! How could I forget that!?! It was horrible...

Answer 15

12. It was seventh grade. I started my period. and everyone was a *****. i likedd a guy who didn't like me back he liked one of my best friends. i was popular but then our group of friends split apart. i was a jerk to my parents. i got over myself pretty quickly.i learned that true friends are important.

Answer 16

12, 6th grade.

They completely changed the math curriculum at my middle school, and I didn't understand a word of it.

That was the first time I had EVER failed at something related to school, so it pretty much shattered my confidence in mathematics.

I'm STILL having trouble recovering from it, I was lucky to pull my grades up this year as high as I did, from Cs and Ds to As and Bs.

Answer 17

I'm currently 13 and so far its my hardest age. I want to grow up so bad and stop being underestimated and babied, but I see the responsibilities that are coming, and I'm not sure I am ready to take them on, because I mean I have to admit I do enjoy acting really immature sometimes with my friends. I'm also dreading moving on, I am graduating Grade 8 this year and I just can't get it through my head that this is my last year with most of my friends.

I also changed alot. I learned alot about myself and went from letting everyones opinions matter and change me, to forgetting they even cared.

But at the same time I love being my age because of the fact that I can be very mature and not be looked at funny, and then go and act like I am 3 again, and not be told I need to grow up.

Answer 18

10 i was a right rebel and a greeb, but emotionally all years from 12-16 and its still **** now when im 17

Answer 19

when i was 80 i had a senior moment every day

Answer 20

13 & Part of 14

I lied alot, cheated on tests.

But it's because Ihung out with the wrong people.

They didn't care about assignments so I got into the habit of doing it.

and right now, it's basically the summer, I took a break, and I am a whole new person, well..myself.

But the true myself.

Friends will backstab you, drama will roll, you want to do so many things, but you'll get caught, and you feel like a dumb airhead hobo loser, however you'd like to put it.

Lesson learned: stay true to yourself, and don't be forced to do something. don't follow people. Sometimes you have to belive in things,even if it means standing alone.

Now I'm smart,fresh clean ( dramaa and all that cheating lieing= dirtty)

I guess I needed some space.

Always act the way you want to, don't let someone steer your life, I was innocnet--------> to complete dare devil------> clean fresh start.

and I want to continue that, I've learned it.

Good Luck to you.

Answer 21

Mine was 3rd grade ... not sure how old I was ... Learning my multiplication  tables was brutal for me ... I remember breaking down and crying in class ... felt really embarrassed ...

Answer 22

14 was horrible and I was very mean and rebellious. come to think of it, I'm really surprised that my mother let me live !

Answer 23

me too

13

and in 7th grade

I did things to try to fit in with the "cool" people

slacked off on my school work, and i was bullied by my so called "friends"

I met a wonderful group of friends in 8th grade though

overall I hated 7th grade

d**n it was really and awkward year, and i was real emotional and cry in school and what not

Answer 24

I'm 25! and honestly you have not gottin to the worst of it yet!  Those are good times so live it up! The hard times come when its like 16+ i cant say that i have that hard of a age but maybe it was 18,going to a new college,meeting new people,having alot of stuff to do its just insane! I'm glad i'm finally out of my teens and out of the school years. AHH! i hated school lol!  

Answer 25

so far eh? at the time it can be difficult, but if you take it slow and dont rush things life is great, the worst age i had was 25 when my Grandparents both died and my parents barely survived a plane crash. Otherwise my life has been fine.

Answer 26

12, i was ************* crazy. I snuck out of the house, illegal stuff, obsessed over boys && Girls. IDK, reckless. And continuing.

EDIT:

oh and suicide attempt ended up in the hospital got the numbers of two hot boys who liked me. CRZY **** like tht, no lie

Answer 27

13 dude. And the sucky part is is that im 13 now. :X. I'm emo and totally fine with it and of course my mom's all like "Oh, just be friendly and try to look like a happy person...and take off that black or else people will think your goth..." but I think I've decided that I'm fine with being who I am and no one can change that other than me. If they don't like it thats their prob, not mine. I'm not into screamo or cutting or suicide or crazy stuff like that, and I don't have depression. i just hate bubbly friendly people who are shallow and think everyone thats emo/gothy/lonery is a complete outcast who hates the world and longs for death and destruction to the human race, cuz were not like that. :)  

Answer 28

i'd say the hardest age for me is a toss between 17 and 32.

17 because that is the year that my first love drowned. my dad was all over me lecturing me 24/7 about anything and everything. i was really trying to find myself amongst all the pain and confusion that i was going through.

32 because that was the year that my husband (at that time) of 10 1/2 years left me and our 2 sons. soon afterward i would find about his multiple affairs. be harrassed the whole year by his mistress. while trying to finish college and take care of 2 young boys all by myself.

just know that although times do it horrific; you will rise above them. and you will be that much stronger because of it. these are the moments that truly make you who you are. learn all you can from them. grow as much as possible from the pain. and you will be much more amazing for having gone through it all.