What we housewife can do in our free time which makes active & self independent?

Question

I am 30years old lady & housewife from last 7years. Before marriage worked as a computer faculty for 1 year. Then got married and came to my husband's town - there did job as a high school computer teacherfor 1 year.Then we planed for baby and he had to go to USA due. to his short computer project. As per these changes in our life i left my job.

Then I had some bad experience with my in laws - felt some how insecure in absence of my husband. I’ve very bad experience as well as good lesson for my life during my pregnancy.

I am spending my whole day as a home maker/ mother on my own .Now my baby has started preschool so i find little free time like 4 hours in a day. So i like to do something in my free time - don't want to go more then those hours as my husband and daughter are very happy & satisfy with my homemaker job as well as motherhood job.

I am doing my job but i want to do something for myself which makes active and self independent but not at the cost of family values.

Answer 1

Are you kidding...doing something for yourself that makes you feel good is going to be GREAT for your family.  I would spend some time in a gym.  Hunt around and get a membership with the bare minimum of what you need for example if you are not going to lift weights get one that has a cardio room that is good.  Your family will benefit from this and you will be active and feeling very good about yourself because of the natural hormones that happen with some activity.  If you don't want to do that go with a yoga class a couple days a week and walk the other days.  Or....you know how much cleaning you can get done in two hours without a child to chase?  Super cleaning can be great exercise too lol!  I hope you take the time for yourself it will be great for you daughter and husband too!

Answer 2

oh my mymy.......

mam u have so many oppurtunities opened in this sky...

well lets start with basics....

wat r ur interests???

wat is the time slot u can give??

where do u reside, i mean in which city??

wat could be input investment u could make??

how good r ur contacts??

wat is ur primary skill??

answering all these questions could make u select any of the follwing star from the sky of oppurtunities:

Soft toys making business

crech school

data entry business

online business

stitching clothes and pikoing them

open up ur own boutique

or a flower and bouqute shop

or a small stationary items shop

home made food and pickles

mess and tiffin centre

beauty parlor

writing books and artticles for newspaper and magazines

buy some famous products from ur hometown at cheap rates and sell them at ur living city at higher rates to neighbours

surely,any1 would click to u..there r lot more to go..but looking at all constraints..u've to decide...so u can get details if u will to be next enterpreneur women

Answer 3

You can run you e-business from right your home.

See the needs of people in your sourrunding and try to put them online via a website. This could be a greate idea and earning as well.

Answer 4

Go to the gym and have a cleansing workout, after working this into your routine, you will feel stronger, healthier and sexier. This could be the thing to give you the independence and confidence you're looking for.

Answer 5

hi,

        you can always spend your free time usefully. start learning some useful courses like tailoring,embroiding. etc. you can master in them as well it will be helpful to you personally.you can also go to computer classes and enlighten yourself.try learning yoga and you can take classes for others once you have learnt it well.wat else........ read more books.... take some tuition classes in the evening.... or some private hindi....... there are a lot of choices available......

but pls dont waste your time watching the hopeless serials at home...... good luck