What will happen if ..........?

Question

what can he cps worker do if you curse them out?

my sisters neighbor called cps on her and they came and found nothing wrong but because my sister is only 20 i think the cps worker is playing games with her and she told her that she would be a part of the system forever and started laughing, it pissed me off and i would like to know can you get an restraining order or get a lawyer, or etc. and if my sister cursed her out can she be vindictive and get her kids taken away?

btw...... . the cps worker came over to her house on 3 different occassions and saw that the house was clean except for one occassion were i guess her kids toys were on the living room floor. my sister was really surprised and upset that this old hag told her that it was messy and it was not it, was just toys! she has 3 kids and we all know we cant control every mess our kids make!

Answer 1

the cps cannot do anything if you cuss or curse them. if you touch them , they can.

as far as her house-it sounds like she was irritaiting her. a messy house is not , toys on the living room floor- a messy house is old food lying around (or no food at all) , roaches & bugs, f***s (pet or human) general filth where the children sleep or play. urine on the carpet or beds. unhealthy eating areas.

you should find out why she is being called on. the neighbor has seen something that she doesn't like. they obviously are not close enough to where the neighbor has been in her house, so it couldn't be her house anyway.

as far as a restraining order or a lwayer, it depends on what they were called for. if the neighbor is being vindictive or immature and wants to cause problems-the cps worker has to agree that the call that was made was insubstantiated. they don't come for small reasons-around where i live, it takes 48 hours. it it better be good. i wouldn't get to mad at the cps worker-she is only doing her job. she might have wanted to get a feel of your sisters attitude, and she probably failed big time, if she cussed her out. i would be watching the neighbor and give credit for drama where it is due.your sister needs to talk to the cps and tell them her concerns-it is against the law to make a false report, and your sister can also sue the neighbor for harrassment, if she keeps it up.

Answer 2

CPS is doing their job, when a complaint is registered they have to investigate by law.  If your sister truly is a good parent, then she would be working with CPS to resolve whatever issues they were called out to address.  Cussing them out only lets everyone know that she is easily angered with an uncontrollable temper, and unwilling to co-operate to make her situation better.  

Answer 3

number one there is a system of checks and balences in any goverment funded org. there are multiple people involved in investigations and the wonderful thing is that they have to prove without a shadow of a doubt that the mother in question is a unfit parent of that the child is in a harmful inviroment as for the cursing all she has to do is report that and state that she was offended and you will get sighted but i also think shes not allowed to be offended kindof like a on duty peace officer there not permitted to be offended while in uniform.

Answer 4

You and I both know that CPS wasn't called just because the neighbors were bored.  What was the claim against your sister?  I doubt the CPS agent is playing games with your sister.  She has better things to do.  

Strange but true - the CPS tries to catch people doing the wrong thing so they are allowed to stop by unannounced.  It was rude for the worker to tell her her house was messy, but not against the law.  I think you are both over-reacting to a nothing-situation.

Sadly, your 20 year old sister has three kids and still felt it was okay to "cuss out" a government official.  Nice.  Makes me proud to be an American.