What will it take for someone to .......?

Question

Pick her/himself up again and never fall down again .

Cos that's what i have to do right now , but i'm feeling clueless

Answer 1

Pick her/himself up again - will take to make a conscious decision to do so.

Never fall down again - impossible. Just better accept it - will have less difficulties dealing with life.

Answer 2

How much sham wisdom I've encountered in the last few topics -_-

The question is worthless without more input from you; where do you want to get to? What was it which caused you to 'fall down' in the first place? Relationship break-down? What caused this? If you want the answer, be honest with yourself.  

Answer 3

Firstly, YOU WILL FALL DOWN AGAIN!!!!! Sorry to shout, but I hope I have your attention now!

Like the old song goes in Life of Brian, "Always look on the bright side of life", but that is always so much easier to say than to do. You sound really down at the moment, I don't know why, but surely things are not so bad? Why not write a couple of lists. On one side, what is not so good in your life. On the other, what is better in your life. Look at both lists, think about how you can reduce the negative list and increase the positive list. If you want to talk more, feel free to e mail me, and I promise that everything said will be just between ourselves and will never go any further.

I'm not a counsellor, but I've been in dark places and had help, so I look to help someone else in turn. I'm also an atheist, so I'm not going to try to turn you to god, but nor will I try to turn you away if you believe.

Take good care.

Ian

Answer 4

It is not in our nature! Mankind has the will to go on, but we will constantly fall short, think of how long we would have to evolve to become a god, because that is what it seems to me you are describing. No One is perfect. Not even God himself.

The objective is to keep trying and improve your effort and outcome each time. It is to improve what we already are inside.

Answer 5

You might forever fall~~! You might even find yourself crawling, I hope not~~! I am trying to understand why your pain and fear is overpowering your life to the point that you are willing to obsess over the way you live~~? You can only try to avoid situations that bring pain into your life but you will never know what you might be losing if you choose to live your life that way, and give no one a chance~~! I wish you luck because I used to be that way for 12 years~~!  

Answer 6

Death.

You have to pick yourself up in the full knowledge that you might fall down again.  

That is what success in life is about.  Continuing on despite failures.

Answer 7

Sometimes you put one foot in front of the other and have to ignore how many thousand more steps you  have to take...

But, don't count on never falling down again, that's part of life, just accept it,  and ignore it and keep moving.

Answer 8

The answer is You can and You can't. First , the best advice i can give is never give up. There's a quote " Success is facing every failures without losing enthusiasm". This quotes states that in every failure , we must not lose hope. We must be optimistic and be positive in every failure

The you can't is, it's impossible to never to fall down again. In every success the pair is failure. But in every failure there are lessons hidden and just waiting to be learned.

Just remember never lose hope, you never know the answer that you are looking for is just, days,hours,minutes,or seconds away. Be optimistic. ^^ Hope that helped

Answer 9

That person perhaps should consider his or her past in an objective rather than subjective manner seeing what was for what it truly was and not as that one wanted it to be.

This may lead the person to an understanding of the choices he or she has made in his or her life that have lead to the consequences that he or she is now receiving.

This will help to identify the cause of suffering in ones life and when one knows the cause of such, one can end the same by making better choices that are more beneficial to ones self and to all others so as to do no harm to any including ones self.

May you be well and may it all be well with you.

Namaste.

Answer 10

I hate to oversimplify....but the answer is to just pick yourself back up.  There is no magic to it - just have to want to get back up.  It is a decision you make.

As for never falling down again - I'm afraid thats an impossibility - no one can guarantee that it won't happen.  But if you learn from what knocked you down in the first place, you won't repeat that mistake again...

Answer 11

When I set out on this journey

I thought it would never end

When I started down that road

I could not see the end

And when I took that first step

I fell in so deep

And all those things that were so hard-won

I thought I would always keep

Now what do you think I see

Standing like a wall in front of me

Defeat, not victory

Defeat, not victory

Defeat, not victory

Chorus:

So what are you going to do? Die?

No

You gonna lay down and die?

No

I will not admit defeat

I will not admit defeat

I will see victory

Pride and deceit

Have choked my life like weeds

And I lost sight of what I really had

What I really need

And all the things I should've valued

I gave away for a prayer and a song

And now when I reach out for them

They are gone

Now you know what I see

Standing in front of me

Like a headstone

A ******* monument to human misery

Defeat, not victory

Defeat, not victory

Defeat, not victory

Chorus

Do I have any friends here?

I can't see

Are any of my friends here?

I can't see

What about you?

Will you be a friend to me?

What about you?

Will you be a friend to me?

I've got a question to ask you

And then you can ask it of me

It's a simple request

And then you can make it of me

Can you forgive me?

Can you see what will be?

Is it victory?

Now I can't show you all the things I've seen

And I can't make you feel anything

Certainly not what they meant to me

And someday I know, no matter how hard we try

We are all going to have to lay down and die

So maybe I should just tell you

What I hope and believe

For every defeat there will be a victory

For every defeat there will be a victory

In defeat, victory

Answer 12

Let go of yourself and look at it from a different point of view. Your not the whole, you are part of the whole you cannot be separate from it, but you are not it. Now the question you need to ask yourself is...What is your job in the whole thing called life? You dont have to know dont worry about that, instead get back up and live until you find out.

Answer 13

Trust me dear ,i've been there,you sometimes have to take a deep breath, an have alittle faith, you may think you'll never get back up but you will!

Answer 14

One of the most important things a destiny guardian does for her mortal subject is to effect a personal co-ordination of the numerous impersonal spirit influences which indwell, surround, and impinge upon the mind and soul of the evolving material creature. Human beings are personalities, and it is exceedingly difficult for nonpersonal spirits and prepersonal entities to make direct contact with such highly material and discretely personal minds. In the ministry of the guarding angel all of these influences are more or less unified and made more nearly appreciable by the expanding moral nature of the evolving human personality.

PAPER 122 - BIRTH AND INFANCY OF JESUS

http://www.urantia.org/papers/paper122.h...

Answer 15

life is not a mountain, it's hills, you need to fall, in order to discover a new path to another summit

Answer 16

   It will take courage and determination and strong will power and strong sense of purpose to pick oneself up.  If you have no purpose you wont find will power to stand up.  KNOW YOUR PURPOSE.  Read your Scripture and then reflect and ponder upon it.  The best purpose can only be given in a Scripture.

Don't be scared of falling down.  Falling down is not important, its the getting up part thats more important.  You have to know about your goals and keep going in that direction.   Be patient.