What will my s*x life be like? I have a urethra opening problem?

Question

hi, i'm a guy and i was born with a urethra opening problem (i believe) but not a serious one. I know i had surgery and everything is working fine down there but i'm really embarressed about scars that i have which don't look that normal. i'm starting to get into that age now where my friends are having s*x and i don't know what to do cause a few girls have offered me but theres no way that i'm ready. What would i say and how would they react when they saw it? now dont get it wrong its not like huge scars it just looks a bit different. I'm also really worried about college cause it seems like everyones just having s*x all the time and i dont know how i would fit into that?

This was really hard for me to ask so please don't make fun of me

Thank you

Answer 1

Firstly, you should never do it until your ready or it wont be special and you will remeber it for all the wrong reasons so wait until your ready

Secondly, if the girl is the right one then she wont care about your scars and if she does then shes no right. Most couples see each other naked before there first time and its likely she will accept your scars.

Thirdly, there is a girl out there somewhere wondering if a guy would notice her b***s are different sizes when he had s*x with her and this is the same principle and i dont think i would mind if i loved that person.

Answer 2

Don't have s*x if you are not ready for it, despite your problem! you should only consider it when you feel you have truley found the right person and love her more than anything and feel you can trust and will feel comfortabe around her no matter what, once you have found her, or them, nothing else will matter, trust me! when girls are really serious about a guy nothing down there counts. you should say something before hand though, just so your both on the same grounds. Trust me! the people who care about it are just in it for it, if you get what i mean lol people who dont care about it are truley in it for you.

hope this helps!

xox

Answer 3

If it's dark and you're wearing a condom she's not going to see anything....and if you wait until you're married your wife will no doubt look past it.  She's not going to care if she loves you enough to marry you.  You might wanna warn her ahead but it doesn't sound like it's that serious.

Answer 4

I'm more concerned about what happens should you get a girl pregnant when a condom breaks, etc.  The only time people are really ready for s*x is if they can handle the responsibilities of it should something like that happen.

Not everyone is having s*x, and I doubt all of your friends are, despite their bragging and fabricating their stories.

I vote for saving yourself for that one special gal that you marry in 5 or 10 years.  Marry that gal, and give her your special gift on your wedding night.