What will you say to a dying friend..?

Question

Theres a friend of my best friend, shes very sick right now, only counting days...

I wonder, if you have this kind of situation, what will you say to your dying friend? you know, you friend is waiting for the "time to go"...

Answer 1

i would ask her to accept Jesus in that last moment, so that i could one day meet her in heaven :-)

Answer 2

I would tell her that I love her. I would also let her know that I'm happy that she is a part of my life and ask her to forgive me if I ever said or did anything to offend her. I would tell her not to be afraid of dying and to be at peace with herself. I would ask her to pray that her spirit move

on to a better place. And that I look forward to seeing her again when it's my time to go.

I would also talk about some of the memories of the times we shared. Maybe play some nice mellow music.

Sometimes people have certain songs that they want to be played before dying.

Answer 3

She's going to a better place with no pain and suffering.............god loves her too much to let her suffer..........

Answer 4

just have a good chat talk about good moments, take your friends mind off of dying =/

Answer 5

Let's forgive each other.

(lol@poet!)

Answer 6

goodbye... i'll miss you for sure but please don't wish to see me soon.

Answer 7

'Adios, see ya in the next life'.

Answer 8

I'll probably say ," You've always been a great friend. May God bless you wherever you are.

Answer 9

"Have you included my name and I/C number in your will?

Joking only but seriously,  tell your friend to stay close and say a prayer for her every night to ease her pain.

Answer 10

Visit her as much as you can, bringing her a gift every time. It should make her feel pretty happy. Have a nice/funny conversation with her, not talks that are boring or depressing. If you guys are religious, maybe share a prayer.

Answer 11

I dunno if you want to directly address it (depends on the personality of the friend... if you think they are strong in personality and okay with death you can address it)... but you should just spend a lot of time with them, read jokes, etc. I think the main thing is spend time with them. Even if you don't talk, they will appreciate it. Definately don't bring up things to make yourself feel better ("Sorry, I did ___") don't get stuff off your chest. You can say stuff like you are an awesome friend, etc.

Answer 12

i always think of u as my good friend and will never forget you

Answer 13

..HE loves u more.....

Answer 14

I was at your friend's place, thought that I'm gonna die any soon.

So, this are my genuine and sincere advise.

Ask her what she wish to have now and try your best to grant her wish.

The 'last thing' she want from you is the comforting words about meeting God and the afterlife tales.

If you can find as many friends she now and visit her, she would be flattered. Bring her the best thing a girl would expect.

A big bouquet of her favourite flower, box of delicious chocolate or maybe a good parfume.

Act like she is going nowhere and will live long like you do.

  

Answer 15

Just say that if she died a lot of people would miss her..

and give her the best time of her life..

or if she doesn't know that shes dying yet tell her shes going to a better place..

Answer 16

Dear Ryuzaki

Truly saddened to hear this...

Please let her know that she is the most courageous and strong person that you have ever seen... and that God has a much much better place for her to rest...  and this is the beginning of another wonderful journey for her...

Hold her hand when you say this...  She would need all the support in the world to keep her going strong...

Take best care...

hepi_dva