What would YOU do if you were in my situation??

Question

This guy who I really really really like, and we used to be really good friends, asked me out a month ago. And i havn't seen him since then! Only talked to him a couple times thats it. The night that he asked me out we hooked up. We hooked up before that once 3 months before that night. I told him that i dont usually make out with my friends (trying to get him to ask me out) so then he said oook do u wanna go out with me and i said yes. So now its not like were going out, becuase i havnt seen him since then!! I dont know whats going on with him.. If you were in my situation, what would you honestly do??

PS: a lonng time ago, he asked me out before, but at that time i didnt like him so i said no.

ALSO what do you think is going on in his head??

Answer 1

You wanted a relationship, he wanted to hook up.  He got what he wanted, you didn't.

If I was in your place, honestly, I'd rethink the value I put on my body.  (Sorry if that seems old fashioned, but being old fashioned doesn't mean wrong.)  I'd get to know someone well and find out the quality of their character before developing a relationship.  

Only he knows what's in his head, but it probably isn't you. And if he comes around again, think twice.

Answer 2

Well, i know this sounds mean, but i would play him like he played me. I would tease him with lingerie, and when he thinks he's about to insert, hop up and say "I need to go to the bathroom, or get a pot roast" Then he won't get any, and miss out  

Answer 3

It's good that you have lost contact with him for a long time, I can feel the positive energy... It's all for the better...

You should not speak to him again, I feel something bad coming from that..

He is thinking about.. Oh my! I'm receiving strong negative energy, do not approach him again.. EVER!

Answer 4

No clue what's going on in his head.. I'm not a pig headed idiot so I wouldn't be able to relate. Sounds like games to me though so do yourself a favour and don't talk to him. You will feel better and stronger if you don't believe his BS.

Maybe I'm completely wrong but my own experience leads me to believe what Ive said. You don't ask someone out and then not talk to them, and I think you know this... sorry sweetie.

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Answer 5

He is not worth it. He only wants to have s*x with you,. wait for a decent guy who will get to know you first.. date you, be your friend and who respects you and you him and you learn to trust each other.. then when you feel you can talk to him about evereything and feel at ease with him and there is frienship and respect on both sides and physical attraction.. then you will know when the time is right to sleep with this guy.. but don't have s*x with that guy you talk about no guy really likes a girl who is too easy... so this shows that this guy is only out for s*x.. a decent guy doesn't want an ''easy girl'' he wants to ''win the girl '' but he doesn't make out and have s*x at the first opportunity.. so your first impression about this guy whom you once disliked was correct.. he is a dislikeable person only out to have pleasure and then he would drop you.. you deserve better.. let him go he isn't worth it.  Deffo !!!!

Answer 6

it's awful to say but he had his way with you and now poof he's gone?  

Answer 7

He's using you for s*x.

Your giving it to him.

That's it.

Learn from this - boys and girls don't usually make ideal friends because unless one is g*y you can bet that at least one of them will find the other sexually attractive.

So you were 'friends' until you did something about the sexual attraction - i assume you have had s*x from what you said - this has clouded the relationship. Now he sees you as an easy lay.

Next time just kiss until you are sure what kind of relationship you have - if you can't talk openly with him - how can you have s*x with him? You will end up getting pregnant if you do this a lot - wake up and respect yourself - then men will treat you with respect.

Act like a s**t and you will be treated like one - harsh but true.

Don't worry - just learn from this experience and move on to a new man!