What would a 11 year old do if she was pregnant?

Question

my friends brothers friend had s*x with her and now she thinks she is pregnant but she dont know that for shure and she can buy a pregnancy test so how does she find out if she is prengant?

Answer 1

I'd love to say congrats! But at 11 that is hardly good news.  She should really get her parents involved.  My daughter is turning 11 this year and if it were her, I would want her to tell me.  She can't make decisions alone, and even a school counselor will have to talk to her parents. I'm sure she is scared, but she should not of been having s*x period!!! What is wrong with kids these days??

Answer 2

Doctors can do a blood test that will tell her within a couple of days, whether she is pregnant.  The doctor could check her out for diseases too, to see if she picked one up from the boy.

Depending on the boy's age, whether the s*x was consensual or not (meaning, they both agreed to it), the s*x could be considered rape and he could be charged with having s*x with such a young girl.  Think of how many other girls he could be doing this to.  You would be doing society a favour by reporting him to your own parents or your friend's parents.

Answer 3

the person on top of me.... it's really not nice to call some1 a lying b**** and she's not lying ( i think)

don't u learn in health in g8.... girls can get puberty between the age of 9 to 14..... dum8dum8....

tell her to get one and talk to her family doctor cuz the doctor all has the rule that says they can't tell anyone else about the patient's illness or whatever and some might even help her.... but the best way is to talk to her parents and get help from an adult and don't have s*x anymore.... she's way too young to have a kid since she's a kid herself too.....

ohh if she has a baby then just give birth to it....

the baby can be her younger siblings....

or maybe she can be grandma in a young age after her baby grow up and have baby.....

Answer 4

Buy a pregnancy test;

what a r****d for having s*x with an 11 yr old!

she has to live with the consequences.

Answer 5

wow 11 does she even have a period yet!!! lol bit young to have s*x..anyhow dun mean to criticize..well if she does get a period usually and isnt normally late, and she now is late for at least a week then be concerned...and do get a pregnancy test since she can buy it! it has directions of use in it...for her sake i hope she isnt! good luck

Answer 6

She does not need to be having s*x. I hope she does get pregnant so she learns a lesson.

Answer 7

Is that can meant to be a can't.

You could buy the test for her. It depends on how old you are. Then take her somewhere that is away from parents etc.

A friend of mine was worried what her parents would say so we bought the test for her and took her to the toilets in the local library to do the test.

If you are going to use public toilets to do this try to find one that is relatively clean.

Has she started getting her period. If not then she cannot get pregnant. Also most of the information saids that you don't ovulate until about a year after you get your first period (although some girls start ovulating right away)

Answer 8

WOW pregnancy at 11!! NO KIDDING? How about you buy the pregnancy test and give it to her plus even if she is pregnant she needs an abortion. NO way she can go through that labor or even 9 months not to mention the 3month!!!

Answer 9

thats sick what is and 11 year old doing in bed with some guy and how old is this guy

Answer 10

Tough luck.

She's an idiot for having s*x; it's her fault and she has to face the punishment.

Answer 11

Why can't she buy a test.  There are lots of clinics who do free tests for people look into one of them.

Answer 12

Well, if she starts vomiting a lot you would be able to tell. Maybe wait 2 months or so. Then you'll be able to tell. But mostly, check if she's vomiting! That's sick that her brother's friend did that to her!

Answer 13

Why is it always, my friends brothers friend .  Just come clean with who it is.  Also why an 11 year old having s*x?

Answer 14

A pregnancy test can let her find out if she's pregnant.  If she can't buy one for herself, she should have someone else buy one for her.

If she is pregnant, she could abort it, or give it up for adoption.  There are tons of people who can't have kids, and want to adopt babies from people who don't want them.  Or she could try to raise it herself, but that probably wouldn't work very well.

Answer 15

why is everyone blaming the girl? It takes 2 to tango and the guy has to take some of the blame - if not all of it because this girl probably didnt know or understand what he was doing. Also assuming the guy is probably under 18 - can he still be charged with statutory rape? I hope so.

Answer 16

THATS REALLY SCAREY!!!! I DUNNO I WOULD NOT s***w MY LIFE UP LIKE HER!

Answer 17

You REALLY need to tell her parents so they can help her.If she is they WILL find out eventually.It is her parents fault she is s******g around anyway.

Answer 18

Unless she has her period, a test is the only way to find out.

Answer 19

Okay for the very rude and inconsiderate people on this survey...Fact: the youngest child ever to give birth was five years old (yes you heard me 5 - look it up) This is a very scary situation b/c your friend is just a baby herself and I know you girls do not like to hear that, but truth be told - this "boy" needs to have some consquences of his own. I can only assume he is older. Your friend needs to see a counselor or go to planned parenting. The best thing you can do as a friend until something is found out is be there for her and explain why it is not good to let a boy take advantage of her like that and that she is too young to be having s*x. THIS parents, is why we need to have better open doors of communication with our children.

Answer 20

Please get her to talk to someone.  Mom, Teacher, school counselor.  She made a BAD decision and needs help.

Answer 21

Does she have her periods yet? If she doesn't she ca't get PG.

She doesn't need a test, she needs to talk to her Mom. If the mom is not a good choice, tell her teacher or counsler at school. An adult needs to direct her in this. If she is pregnant she'll have lots of decisions to make.

Answer 22

you can go to planned parenthood.

Answer 23

the test will tell

Answer 24

Wow. The idea of an eleven year old having s*x is very scary to me. There are always places like Planned Parenthood but at that age, I am sure the parents would need to be involved. I honestly think her parents should be told anyway. If she did get pregnant, it could really s***w up her body because it wouldn't be physically ready to have a child.