What would a lady prefer......?

Question

my wife's birthday is coming up....and I bought her some jewelry already and I'm going to have roses for her on the day of her birthday...but I have to go to work early while she's still sleeping......would it be better if I left the roses and jewelry for her to find when she wakes up with a card....or should I wait until I get home to give it to her myself????

Answer 1

i'd like to wake up to the presents. come home with the roses, and make her dinner. whatever she likes. or surprise her with something new that you think she'll like. if it doesn't turn out, you can laugh about it, and dash out to eat somewhere.

Answer 2

I think that if you leave her roses when you leave you are going to feel that it's your special day when you come home!

Answer 3

Leave the roses so she doesn't think you forgot, then give her the jewelry later in the evening

Answer 4

um you better do both, john. LIke leave a little card or something to let her know that her gift's coming after work. Or leave part of the gift and say "the other part's after work". Or something along those lines! just think what would you like if it was you!? You wouldn't wanna wake up on ur birthday morning alone and no gift or anything insight.

Answer 5

John...you are very romantic.  I would rather share the time getting the presents with the giver.  Maybe you could leave her a card for the morning, promising...more to come later...then she would be anticipating things all day long.

Answer 6

It would be really sweet to leave them for her to find. If you wait until you get home, she might think that you forgot her. Or you could have the roses delivered during the day, and then give her the jewelry when you get home.

If you wanted to do more, you could take her out for a nice dinner, then bring her home and give her a bubble bath and a massage, then show her how much you love her.

Answer 7

I think it's a nice idea to leave it for her to find when she gets up.  As an added benefit to you, she would probably be in a very receptive mood to give you some extra attention in response, and have all day to plan it.

Answer 8

I would leave the roses and candy and card for her to see when she wakes up! She should be so glad !

Answer 9

Leave the roses and card for her to find when she wakes up (prob next to picture of you two together) so she knows you know its her birthday and actually care. When you get home give her the jewelry face to face. maybe go out to her fav restaurant and give her the jewelry there or give it to her before dinner so she can wear it to dinner if you wanted to give her the present in a more private setting (sorry if it's confusing)

Answer 10

Leave a single rose for her with the card.  Call her during the day to wish her happy birthday, and ask her if there's anything she'd like to do to celebrate, if you haven't done so already.  Either have the remaining flowers delivered later in the day, or have them for her when you return home.  Take her to a nice restaurant if she wants to go out.  Or if she'd prefer to stay home for dinner, either you do all the cooking for her, or at the very least, help her get dinner ready.  Perhaps there's a movie she might like to see that you aren't that keen on.  Watch it with her without complaint.  It's only a couple hours long, not much time in the grand scheme of things.  At the end of the night, make fabulous love with her, if she's in the mood.  And before you both go to sleep, present her with the jewelry.