What would be the earliest you consider a renewal of vows?

Question

at what year of the marriage would you do a renewal of vows if you were to do one? and how would you go about doing it? what kind of ceremony?

Answer 1

i think if it is a small private ceremony, maybe only you and your husband and someone to officiate then every year could be a nice way to remind each other how much you care about them. if you want a big party similar to the actual wedding then i think the earliest would be 10 years.

Answer 2

We wouldn't ever do it. The vows we took were for life; they don't need renewing! Just our belief...

Most couples would do it at 25 years, though some are starting to do it at the 10th anniversary.

Whatever you plan, just remember it's not 'another' wedding. Plan a ceremony or blessing at your church, or another location, then basically an anniversary party - dinner at your home, and a bit of a party with family and close friends.

Answer 3

around i say 10 years  

Answer 4

I would say your 10th Anniversary!

Answer 5

Depends.

My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now (i'm 22/he's 24) and we're having our wedding in december....a renewal ceremony. We married before he left for Iraq for an 18mo. tour with the army... so we waited til he was back to have a wedding...so we're having a wedding after only 2 1/2 years... and so many are excited and happy for us to be renewing our vows... especially after a hard deployment and close calls with it..  a lot of times i didn't think we'd ever get the chance to marry each other due to the war..  

so really, it depends.

if the couple married the right way, and are older now.. i say about..25 or 50th.  

Answer 6

25 years  I would hire a wedding planner. I would have the priest that married us the first time perform the ceremony.  

I would  love to have a garden wedding with just immediate family and very good friends.  

Answer 7

I could see myself doing it after like 25 yrs of marriage or something like that. I'd have a celebration with friends and family. Nothing HUGE but nice. I wouldn't do it in like a year or anything. But I would say it'd be okay if someone wanted to do it on their one year anniversary. I just think it would be weird to have a huge party after only one year, since it's so close to the wedding.