What would u do if ur child told u they where g*y?

Question

or bi

Answer 1

Depends on the age..

Adolescents experiment and will be g*y/bi one day and not the next.. As a teenager/pre adult they may have experienced more and know that they are g*y/bi.

Either way they are your child so I would still love them, and support them however they decided to live their life.

I would respect the fact that they felt they could come to me with such a complicated thing, and try to understand that it was harder for them to come to that realization of being g*y or bi, then for me to hear it.

Answer 2

I would say okay. Whoever you like doesn't matter to me. It's who you are inside.

I personally don't think that sexual orientation would make me feel in any bad or weird way towards my child. As long as they are happy that is all that matters.

Answer 3

I'd be shocked but I would accept it. I could never stop loving my children no matter what the circumstances were. They have their own life and can decide for themselves what makes them happy.  

Answer 4

Accept it and support them.   It's their life.

Answer 5

say okay give a hug and say i love him or her

Answer 6

I wouldn't care. But parents from past generations would not be happy because they all descriminate on it. I don't get why people hate it so much, what did it ever do to you. But, most parents want straight kids, which sucks to be g*y.

g*y isn't a choice, so why not make your kids happy and just let them live and be who they are.

Answer 7

I would show them that I still love them the same as before they told me. Lord knows I have had different responses from different people when telling them about myself. The ones that completely change how they treat me are only showing me that they are not the loving nieces or sisters or brothers or friends that I thought they were. The most important thing is to be a loving person- to show love one to another. To do otherwise only tells them either that you don't love them, or that whatever it is that makes you tick isn't anything that they should want to have anything to do with.

Answer 8

Accept it. It doesn't make them any worse or better. It'd be perfectly fine with me.

Answer 9

well i don't have kids but if i did and they told me they were g*y or bi i would be fine with it. i have great friends that are g*y and many of them don't get along well with their parents. i would love them just as much as i had before.

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Answer 10

well u luv them before u no they r that way so u luv them even after cause they r still the same person

Answer 11

I would love them just the same...its not my place to tell them what or who they are suppose to love or be attracted to. As long as they are not put in harms way I'd be perfectly fine with it.

Answer 12

I think Id be surprised and maybe a bit disappointed...i have nothing against g**s but i would grieve the idea of a straight daughter, bringing home her man and all that...and at the same time id be happy because men are a******s and being L*****n would save my daughter a lot of heartache :o) lol  

Answer 13

tell them they are still them and you love them.  

during teen hormone years lots of kids run hot and cold as far identifying their sexuality.  They have never had to think about it much until the teen years.  you could tell them they were carrots or broccoli  when they were 7 and they would be fine with that because they were part of the family and they would think you were carrots or broccoli too, which is where their identity came from them.  

So by adding a stir to the family identity forcing them to really think about what being a boy or girl really means is pretty traumatic  and things are confused for a few years.  

I have met only a very few people who were clear on their sexual orientation from early years.    One had no problem at all, I just knew I wasn't attracted to girls.  I got into theater in HS and college cause I could pour my heart into acting. but I also got a major in Education so I could teach.   I didn't come out to my family for a decade or so after college.  

Answer 14

tell him i dont want to see any d****s lying around?

and accept it

it doesnt make the person

Answer 15

i wouldnt care if they were bi or g*y.

in fact i would love them more because thats their true self and they didnt try to hide it.

Answer 16

I would accept it and move on. maybe ask them why the are. I know there is no real answer but if you ask them why you can tell if they really are or not. I mean its thier life you can't run it. plus they are your child it shouldn't matter if they are g*y straight bi blak blue green white ornage pink smart dump tall short skinny fat. its who they are inside