What would u do if you found out that your dad is a two-timer man and now disrespects your mom?

Question

I had a good relationship with my dad since i was a kid, admired him, not until I finished college when my sisters & I discovered that he's been having a relationship with another woman for so many yrs now. Upon discovering this we started hating him and guess what, he hated us too, but worst thing is he treats our all-loving mom badly. My dad's insane!

Answer 1

ouch! tell dad to grow-up and at least treat mom with the respect the mother of his children deserve... and tell mom to tell dad to pack his bags and hit the door and hope it hits him in his backside nice and hard like he deserves.

maybe than dad will realize his mistakes and look at mom differently since if they still live together sorry to say but your mom needs to find her backbone and bee-itch slap the old man.

Answer 2

Dear Daughter:

Remember your place: "Daughter" your job is to love your dad unconditionally.  Your job is not to be concerned with the relations or lack thereof with between your dad and your mother.  I know this may sound a little up front--but it's not your role in the family to take sides and hate your dad over his extra-marital choices.  Your mother needs to decide her own worth within their marriage.  When husbands go cheating, wives know.  Perhaps your mother has chosen for many years not to deal with his cheating--perhaps your mother had an affair first and you and your siblings never knew--it's that "deep"--and your place is to not get involved!

Do not hate your dad or treat him differently and as long as he is not parading this mistress in front of you and other family members, ask your mother not to complain but make a healthy choice--you'll see where all parties stand then (for sure).

All the best!