hi,i have a 11 year old step daughter who as been living with me and her natural dad now for two years,she as no contact at all from her mum as she told a lie to the police and her natural mum disowned her and moved house.when she first moved in with us i also have a 13 year old daugter all my other kids have grown up and left home ,she was a great little girl couldnt do enough for me,as the months have gone on and as a parent i have to set rules for her and when she breaks them she gets punished bed earley,books taken away ect.over the last 12 months shes stealed from my daughter,shes stealed money from a family member,she steals food,when given food she pulls her face and said when she lived with her mum she got a plate of food as big as her dad gets,i think thats the reason for her being a size 14 trouser and a 38b bust a 11 years old.recently me and her dad married and last weekend she put the washing in the machine while i nipped out shopping and when i got bk she told me she had seen somthing yellow floating around in the washer and throughout the wash she constantly reminded me that there was something in there,when i pulled the washing out it was her dads clothes she put in there and a condom came out,now the day b4 her dad worked over at work and we had a little argument but soon made it up and she said to me that if me and her dad split up she didnt want stay with him.now my husband swore down he had been at work and i checked this also he said what would he want to put a condom out of its packet in his pocket for?which was a good question,do you think it was her doing,now lately i found my pic she had ripped up and nasty letters saying she thinks im her daughter and shes trying rule my life and so on,she constantly lies ,i sent her shop a while ago and on the way bk from the shop she ate half the bread that was for tea so i sent her bed,as she had already ate the bread the next day i got a call from the school saying i sent her bed with no tea,no tv on and her dad had hit her,now after sending social services we told them to check her for marks also her dad was at work at the time,they found out she was lying.they told me to stick to my rules and tell her if shes doing all this thinking she can go back to her mum shes going no where,she carnt keep lying and moving house to house.its really hurting me i took her in as my daughter,shes treated exactly the same as my 13 yr old daugter and she behaves like this.she constantly creaps around the house ear wigging into our conversations.she is boy crazy and carnt be trusted to go out as again she doesnt come home on time and is flopping her b***s out to boys which is worrying in case it leads to further things as she as already started her periods when she was 9.anyone advise.when we approach her she says sorry i wont do it again and a few days later we are here again with the same problems anyone advise me plzzzzz????
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