What would u think of this turkish guy?

Question

I'm tunisian and I met a group of turkish students in April.they're studyin in my country.it was y chance when I was with a friend in a fast-food.we talked together and when I was leaving one of them asked me my phone number.he sent me some msgs askin about me,my study..we decided to meet again but it was impossible cauz we'd a lot of exams.he never called me and neither did I.As we were concentrated on exams this month,we didn't send msgs or called each other until yesterday when he sent me amsg tellin me he'll go to turkey for the holiday so he gave me his number and his e-mail.I was really surprised especially we met ONLY ONE TIME.now,I don't know wether he thinks about a simple friendship or a serious relationship (he stil has 3 years of studies here).I'm confused cauz my friends told me it seems to be serious .wouldn't it be foolish to think so just for some msgs? Cauz he may consider me just as a friend and anyway ,I don't want to lose his friendship.what do u think please.?

Answer 1

It seems like a simple friendship.  I'd be surprised if he wants a real love relationship out of this because he sounds innocent when he's just texting you and such.

Answer 2

Here we go again. From your questions, I can't see whether you want him only as a friend or not. What do YOU want? He sounds perfectly like a friend to me. Don't you have any other male friends you can consult? They can give better advice than gossiping, giggling girls you know. Besides, why do you ask so many questions about him? Wouldn't it be better to just wait and see?

Anyway, you know what's the best way to convince yourself? Go and ask him straight in the face and risk making a colossal fool out of yourself. But who cares, he is going to Turkey anyway and your embarrassment will hopefully be mitigated by the time he gets back for his studies.

Another alternative is, you can "kind of" flirt with him, not too openly though -to avoid future embarrassments-, and observe his reaction. You can pull yourself back and open your eyes wide saying "Gosh, I only considered you a friend! I'm shocked", in case he wants to be your lover or something. On the other hand, if he considers you only as a friend, he won't reciprocate to any of your "kind of flirty" behaviour and you'll understand that he only wants to be your friend or he only believes you are useful to him in his studies. (Yea yea I know perhaps this alternative isn't really the most upright one)

Answer 3

it sounds more like a simple friendship. Atleast if you want it to be that way take control over the relationship, if you dont want it to get serious keep the relationship as if between 2 friends

Answer 4

Dear Lady,

He likes you very much.But he is not be able to explain that.He is shy...

He cannot be your friend.Because he really likes you. If he sees you with an other man he becomes jealous very much.

He is just waiting for your step.If you want a relationship with him.Go a head.

But If you don't want never treat him as a friend.Because he is just collecting your positive behaviours and give them meaning... So just be very cold to him...He will slowly slowy forget about you...

But I am repeating again "He cannot be your friend" in our country is it extremely hard to find a friend from other gender...

For your information...

Answer 5

original poster,ignore trotsky vs kerensky,she is forever rude,abusive and trouble making,who doesnt try to help,only judge and bully.

about ur question,it sounds to me like he wants to be friends? just keep in touch best you can and see what happens ok? if your young u have all the time in the world for boys.