What would you do, if your partner asked you....?

Question

Ok, say you've been with your partner for four years and you absolutely adore them and want to spend the rest of your life with them.

However, your partner has only ever been with you since they were very young, so have been wondering what it would be like just to have a few flings. But your partner loves you very much too.

If they asked if you could go on a break, just so they could 'play the field', would you let them do this?

Bearing in mind, that you're four years older than them, and you have had your fun and they haven't.

Answer 1

Not a very good idea, and the fact that your partner wants to do this means thei're having doubts about the relationship.

But then, how can you stop them from doing it?

Answer 2

No it's all or nothing.

Answer 3

If that's the case and you think your relationship can survive this, then why don't you play the field together it will blow his mind.

Answer 4

this is atough one. On one hand do you want him wondering what someone else would have been like and wind up cheating on you?  On the other hand he might meet someone he likes better.  There is an old saying

" If you love someone let them go.  If they come back they are yours forever if they do not they never were"

Just make sure your partner knows you are going to play too.

All fair in love and war

Answer 5

how can ur partner say thye are in love with u n also say lets go on a break so we can play the field thats wrong...if ur not careful its gna b over soon mayb they already found som1 else?!? i wud sit down n hav a chat with them n talk bout the whole thing n if they still "wana play the field" end it!!

Answer 6

how many partners you have

Answer 7

No I wouldn't. If I was with someone who wanted to hook up with someone else, I would end the relationship immediately regardless of the amount of time we have been together.

A third party will change everything and things will never be the same again.

Answer 8

you keep saying them...how many partners do you have??

Answer 9

well, i believe if they-truly love you?they would-never suggest or think of this?.how dare-they ask such a thing?if contemplating doing this?then think-maybe it its time-for  a break, to decide-if your relationship is really worth continuing?would you really want him-back after he screws around with-everyone?isn't it-better to have someone, untouched and safe?i don't-believe either of you are ready up-relationship relationship,not one that will last a life-time? anyways

Answer 10

No ducki u do not want to be in a relationship where ur man wants to know what its like to play the field!

Id tell him to go ahead and f*ck him right off!

Im sure u can do better!

x

Answer 11

you are not ment to be.....let him go cos if you dont he will just go if thats what he wants.....

Answer 12

Obviously, you guys are very young to ask this kind of questions, when someone wants to expererience something in life, let him/her do it if you dont, you always would be ''accused'' that you didnt let me, if that person comes back to you, is yours, if it doesnt, it was never meant to be for you.  It's hard I know, but is reality, and no one lives for you, you must live your own experiences. That's my opinion.

Answer 13

no way? theres been people who been together all there life and only ever had each other. and they been happy with that. that would cause so many problems. you love each other. do something diffrent spice your love life up. dress like a tart make him call you something diffrent. another name. but if you let him do this. im feared you might lose him for ever. are spoil what you have now. good luck to you.

Answer 14

If your partner wants to play the field, I don't care what you say about being in love, there are serious problems there...