Ok, WOW where to start? I'm just curious how many people stay with their significant other after a confirmed affair. Here's a brief description of my story...Ok, I have been married for 6 years, together for 13. I recently found out that my husband had an affair that took place about a month ago. Durring this time I spoke to a couple friends about the incodent and they gave me some additional information about him. I had susspected him of cheating on me with my cousin for 5 or so years. He always made me feel bad for bringing it up, like I was crazy and jealous. Weeeeell, my cousin admitted that they did have something going and shortly after being called out with this evidence so did my husband. Now this was about 5 -6 years ago. It was not even a year after we got married and while I was pregnant with our son to make matters worse. And these are just the two things I know of for sure. I'm not sure how many nights I spent alone over the last 7 years while he was out on the town. Ok, so...what do I do?! People say that we all make mistakes, that it's just life, to forgive and move on, or get rid of him! It's just not that simple for me?! I mean I am only 26 and we have been together since 8th grade! 13 years! And it was all a lie. But at the same time I don't know what I would do without him. How ignorant is that??? I guess I just want to know is it normal to be at such polar opposites?? I have never wanted someone to leave so bad and stay at the same time!!? UGH! Any serious advice is welcome. TIA!
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