What would you do? (Serious question, please help)!!!!

Question

My friend's boyfriend is a all around great guy, no complaints, and you would never guess it either but he has such an extreme hatred for ghetto people its just scary and it scares her when she hears him talk about people like that. I asked why he feels the way he does and this guy has very very deep emotional scaring.

Short summary of list of events and things ghetto people did to this guy: from kindergarten and all the way to through high school they were all his bullies (beating him up, spiting in his food, calling him names, stealing his stuff, getting him in trouble, etc.). They have beaten and stolen money/jewelry from his mother on multiple occasions, beat his older brother in front of him with bats as a gang initiation when he was 7! and his last attempt of rooming with some ghetto ended up with him being brutally beaten and kicked down stairs which he had to go to the hospital for and now has a lasting back injury.

Any other time he acts perfectly fine, its only on that topic does he snap and I think this guy might murder the next ghetto person who tries to f*ck with him.

Answer 1

Poor guy :(

Perhaps suggest that he get some counseling or therapy. Obviously a lifetime of abuse and mis-treatment isn't going to make it going away, but it sounds like he needs some professional help before he does seriously hurt someone.

Best wishes :)

Answer 2

well man to be honest I don't blame him, you or anyone else would be the same if they were instead of him, maybe therapy or an activity that will cool him down would help but I doubt it, vengeance has made him a brute and he will not stop until he gets satisfaction, stay away from him when he gets angry.