What would you do if ... ?

Question

if you caught your wife cheating, what would be your reaction towards the other man? Would you hit him? Tell him to %$^ off? Do nothing?

Answer 1

Is this,Anatole Golgani? I would go to a place I would not want to ever be. You guys know that sick feeling you get just thinking about catching someone with your lover? I know you do, we all have those dreams, they wake you up, and you look over to see you lover sleeping and you try to go back to sleep and hope it never happens in real life.

Answer 2

Walk away from both of them   and  never  look back.

Answer 3

Divorce court.

Answer 4

idk im not a man  

Answer 5

I'd turn around, walk out the same way I came, hold back some tears, and begin my new life without that person.

Answer 6

I just asked my husband - and he refuses to answer.  hmmmm

Answer 7

Honestly, if my wife ever cheated on me.. I wouldn't consider it the other mans fault.  I'd let the blame fall solely on my wife.  Quite frankly, i've spent far too much time getting her to understand how men are, and she'd knows better then to fall for some guy's lines.  So she wouldn't have any excuses, she meant to do it and that's all there is to it.

She already knows, i'd pack my things, leave, file for divorce.  I've got no time to be messing around giving second chances.

Answer 8

Well, it isn't exactly the same, but when I caught my husband cheating, I was really angry, at him mostly, but at the girl he was cheating with because she KNEW he was married and cheated anyway. As a girl I yelled and cried a lot, but my husband could've really hurt me if I'd have gotten mad and hit at him.   I guess if the other party didn't know, it isn't really their fault, so you can be upset with them, but you can't take it out on them.  But, once a cheater, always a cheater... I'd definitely lose the wife!

Answer 9

That's your problem right there.  Do not confront the guy, the main target is your girlfriend.  If you want to stay together, work it out, ask her why and correct mistakes, learn from mistakes and that will make the relationship stronger.  It's all about trust.  If you want to leave her, tell her that you deserve way better and that you can find way much better.  If the guy knew that she was already in a relationship, I would exactly punch him in the face but confront him, not physically.