What would you do if you caught your 13 year old son making out with his girlfriend?

Question

What would you do if you caught your 13 year old son making out with his girlfriend?

Answer 1

Talk to him about s*x. and condoms. and the outcomes if no protection is used.

Answer 2

i agree with the others, s*x talk, condoms, teach him about responsibility and remember its 2008 not 1930- this day and age its common for young people to do adult things.  accept it and teach him the best you can

Answer 3

you may want to have "the talk" with him but its only kissing dont worry to much.

Answer 4

Well, I am a 13 year old boy. And I would be so embarassed. I wouldn't give him the talk because he would die of embarassment. I would say forget it. He is 13, its gonna happen

Answer 5

I sat my son down and made sure he knew about s*x and protection.  I told him that he was supposed to make sure that he took care of making sure he was protected and not to count on her having it.  

I guess that I wanted to make sure that the lesson sank in because I pointed out women pushing babies in carraiges when we were out and asked him if he was ready for that result.  If not, either protect it or keep it in his pants.

It all really depends on how far they are going when you say that they are making out.  If they have their clothes on, then there is not anything to panic about.  If their clothes are off and they haven't gone too far, talk to them about it.  If they have done it once, wait before you get nervous.  If more then once, start knitting baby booties just in case.

Answer 6

I would say it's time to talk to him about s*x and condoms if you haven't already.

Answer 7

This is completely normal. Not everyone can be a jonas brother. Just have the "birds and bees" talk so you are confident he can make the correct decisions.

Answer 8

If they are making out I'd probably just leave. If they are naked and on the verge of something else I'd say something to stop them.

A 13 year old making out is a pretty common thing, and I'd rather catch him making out then having s*x.  

Answer 9

Say YOU SHOULD NOT BE DATING. GET UP TO YOUR ROOM

Answer 10

Make sure he knows all about s*x//risky behavior.  13 year olds do kiss though, it's perfectly normal.

Answer 11

well im 14 but when im older and if that ever happens to me i would walk in and be like MARTY WERES THE SOAP

Answer 12

i would talk to him and make sure he knows everything about s*x and things like that but i wouldnt punish him, because then it would seem like your punishing him for doing something normal

Answer 13

nothing

Answer 14

well most 13 year olds do that so i wouldnt say anything well i might check to make sure hes not just using the girl but i dont think it is that big of a deal

Answer 15

Give him a high five, and yell SCORE!

Answer 16

um nuffin

it's normal

Answer 17

.. What if your son was g*y?

Answer 18

Well there are a few things. At least he isn't g*y, and it is normal at that age I would just leave it alone because teens already worry about their parents finding out, and talk to him about s*x if he don't already know. But if you catch him doing anything more then i would probably say something, BUT do not yell if you do.

Answer 19

give him "the talk". tell him that if he gets his gf pregnant then he can just walk away but she has to deal with the ppl staring at her and raising the child, so if he loves her then he wouldnt risk it. but if all they do is kiss then i wouldnt do anything its totally normal he's just being a teen

Answer 20

talk to him about kissing and s*x and trust him with his choices...  

Answer 21

Video tape it, and u might make some money. JK

well tell him about the TALK, and how great is s*x :D JK

well yeah, tell the risk too

Answer 22

Don't say anything because that obviously means u were spying. only nosy and sometimes annoying parents spy on there kids.

Answer 23

My 13 year old son wouldn't have a girlfriend yet - if he did I surely wouldn't let them unsupervised and give them the opportunity to be making out.

Answer 24

Nothing. I think kissing/making out is okay at that age (but that is all).

If you aren't okay with it than have a talk with both of them about what you think is appropriate and what's not.  

Answer 25

just talk to him about s*x.

but besides that its totally normal.

hes at that age.

Best of Luck :]

Answer 26

Tell him about the birds and the bees. it's about time he knew.

Answer 27

Hes 13 he will b fine as long as it doesnt go to far

Answer 28

Nothing. It's normal.

Answer 29

notin its not lik der doin s*x

Answer 30

My 13 year-old son would not have a girlfriend until he got to high school and could prove that he could handle his studies first. Before he got a girlfriend he would learn about s*x and protection, and the responsibility he would have to take on if he were to get a girl pregnant, and the long list of STD's he could catch.

Answer 31

I'm his age, and I see kissing all the time. I've also heard lots of s*x stories...believe me, most of the girls in my grade aren't virgins. I'd say that you should talk to him, make sure he knows the consequences of having s*x that young, even if he's not doing it yet.