What would you do if you found your boyfriend googling "where can i get a happy ending"?

Question

I found my boyfriend googling "Where can i find an asian massage parlor with happy endings". This is a realtionship of five years. Does this mean he is ready to cheat on me or wants something different that may seem innocent to him?

Answer 1

Wow...that's just wrong.  I am sorry.  I don't know what it means for him, except that he's looking for some kind of satisfaction.  

He should have come to you first.

Answer 2

What a douche bag!  Did you question him on it??  I'd question him on every part of it till he decides never to do it again.  Make him feel guilty for it, 5 years earns you some explanations!  

Answer 3

well ask him what he meant by it and why he did it.Thats a very rude and disrespectful thing to try and do.What an a**.if he gets defensive then he is up to something and as much as it may hurt,maybe you should end it and find a guy who respects you.what a jerk.  

Answer 4

call him a rtard.. and talk to him about it..

he has no reason to do that.  

Answer 5

Maybe he just wants something new. I don't know if that constitutes cheating. Maybe you could try some role play (set up a massage parlour at your place)? Don't jump to rash conclusions without talking to him about it. It may be something or it may be nothing.

Answer 6

He's just playing on the computer...don't make such a big deal out of it.  Don't look for problems*

Answer 7

It means he doesn't know how to use a search engine. That's unforgivable and incurable. You should leave him.

Seriously, either he's strangely curious or he's looking for something he's not getting from your relationship. If you already think something's wrong in our relationship, this is yet another thing to feel weird about.

If not, ask him if there's more he's looking for. Ask him to tell you what you could add to your relationship. If he wants you to pretend to be a masseuse and you're willing to do that, go for it.

You have to add this into the information you already have about him.

Answer 8

That was messed up! What a jerk for looking that up!  but in the other hand, maybe it's just a fantasy that he has... After you calm down, ask him what that is supposed to mean. Is he bored, is it just a fantasy? Depending on what he tells you, then you can tell him that you are open to try new things.... maybe role play to keep the sexual part of the relationship fresh....