What would you do if you was betrayed by a close friend?

Question

I just found out today that one of my close friends Stephanie is going out with a boy i used to like and she never told me about.I told steph when i was in school how much i like him and now she goes out with him. this sucks i feel hurt, stabbed in the back and betrayed. I helped her out with so many things. like her relationship problems, i defended her when people used to talk s h i t about her. I don't know why she did that to me. Well i hope she doesn't talk to me cause if she does i will punch her in her throat.

Answer 1

  stop worying about it at least you wont be the one with a broken heart when he hurts her time heals all  

Answer 2

I would also feel betrayed if I were in your shoes, but the thing is, it was just a boy you used to like... not an ex-boyfriend. It's not as big of a deal as you're making it out to be. Don't think about it so much and just accept it. Hope this helps :)

Answer 3

Well that does suck.  I can only say to you that you should not really treat her as a close friend anymore.  If you do don't start crying when she betrays you again.  She obviously doesn't care for you the way you care for her as a friend.  Since it wasn't an ex of yours, you can still be a friend to her, but more like a pal.  But you should just forgive it.  What if it was you in her shoes, and it happened the opposite way....would you hate yourself and not forgive yourself.  I think that you would forgive yourself if you were judging you.  So just forgive her...move on and her status in now a pal, not a close friend.  I would even bother calling her that much either.

Answer 4

Um if she is a real close friend than you should be able to go to her and tell her how you feel. If she is really a close friend like you say she is than she will leave the guy alone and go find someone else if she see's your discomfort but i say before dimissng her talk to her first you don't wanna let a close friend go just because of a boy chicks before ***** and always remember that and good luck honey

Answer 5

I would also feel betrayed. Bt look on the bright side, at least now you know what she's like. You don;t need people like her when you have other close friends. Just have a sleepover and invite all your close friends, except her, to make yourself feel better.

Answer 6

If she did this to you, she is not a close friend. A Close friend would respect that. I suggest you let it, and her go, and go find a real friend who will respect you and your feelings. Although, I also must point out that either the guy didn't know you liked him or just didn't care. Because if he knew, but went out with your friend anyway, he's not someone you should want to be with. If he did not know, then on that end you have no one to blame but yourself and you have to reserve your anger for your friend only.