What would you do if your best friend told you you couldnt like this boy ?

Question

turns out that me and my best friend like the same boy and now our friendship is turning into nothing.

help!

Answer 1

the boy isn't worth losing your best friend! forget him and move on!

Answer 2

id forget her and do whatever i wanted. real friends dont say stuff like that.

Answer 3

This is a matter of prioritizing. If you say this girl is your best friend, then think twice about making any decisions to end this friendship. However, if you truly care for this boy, then maybe it would be best. I would say that at this point, however, It would be best to sit down and talk to your friend. Before you talk, make an agreement to speak to each other civilly, without arguing or raising your voice. Try to understand her feelings as well as express your own clearly, and in the end, remember that most often, your girlfriends will last longer than the boys you date.  

Answer 4

you can't help who you like.  the problem comes in when you both try to date him.

You have to decide which is more important to you.  Your friendship with each other or this boy.  

Answer 5

This is a very complicated situation. I know that if my best friend started liking my crush I wouldn't be able to help feeling some small hatred towards her. The only thing you can do is really ask her if she's willing to ruin the friendship that was built over a guy. Crushes are so completely meaningless compared to the importance of a strong friendship.  

Answer 6

'Boy', you must be under 15, lol.

I think you're both ruining your friendship over nothing. Talk about it, and stop worrying about this kid, and 'going-out'.  

Answer 7

if it is turning into nothing then what do you have to lose? do you think she will go out with him long? if so then you should try to get him first. if you think her relationship with him will be short, then have her go out with him first. then your friendship might last.

Answer 8

ask him out first and punch her in the face

Answer 9

Let her have him. don't let your friendship go bad because of somebody that might not be the One.

Answer 10

I would wonder why my friend was under the impression that I liked boys.

Answer 11

no boy is worth losing a friendship..

no matter how much you may think you like him, its not worth it.

he may last a month or two, but friends last a lifetime. :)

cheesy i know, but its so true.

Answer 12

if she told you that you can't like him she doesn't sound like much of a friend. i say go for it.

Answer 13

that happens a lot. if your friendship means a lot to you, make out a deal with her that he could pick or neither could have him.