What would you do if your boyfriend/husband...?

Question

Was doing drugs at work with his colleagues of his department and never told you until 2 years later?

He has a problem with honesty and confrontation. What to do?

Answer 1

May be he didn't feel he had to tell you.  if he's not into confrontation, then of course he wouldn't have told you.

if he's still doing drugs, tell him it's going to stop.

if he's not, I'd leave it alone.

Answer 2

I would demand that he get help to conquer his drug habit....and if he refuses...I would leave him....I will never enable anyone with a serious addiction....

Answer 3

i left my boyfriend who did this to me and now hes selling and dealing i think i did the right thing since we were not married and had no kids together

Answer 4

You need to address it not confrontationally, but directly.  You need to say "I'm concerned and I need to know where we stand"

Answer 5

Forgiving is always the best thing to do.

id probably sit down and talk about it

and if you dont want him to continue with the drugs, ask him not to

youre his wife and should be 1st priority, especially over drugs.

and talk about the honesty problem hes having.

:)