What would you do if your boyfriend says he loves you but have another girlfriend?

Question

I’ve been dating this guy for 8 months. We were very much in love. Then for no reason he freaked out and broke up with me. He has continued to call me almost everyday since then. He also comes to see me frequently and tell me he loves me. The thing is I just found out he has been dating someone else! He says that it is not love with her. I told to him to quit calling me and he cried. I love him so much, I don’t know what to do.

Answer 1

leave him alone. He doesn't know what he wants and is just trying to keep you around on the side

Answer 2

you been dating this jerk for 8months and he tells you he loves then he.breaks it off . then he starts calling and coming to see you all the while still telling you he loves you but he forgot to tell you about this other women. it sounds like the jerk wants his cake and eats it to . if he cared half as much as you do why is he seeing some one else . stop taking his calls and dint have any thing more to do with him. you deserve better than this he will never be faithfullll to you so i would let him go honey if a man is lying to you some thing is wrong their shouldn't be any dishonestly in a relationship

Answer 3

he does not know what he wants... you are just the back up plan in case the other gf does not work out...

much luck!!

Answer 4

This guy comes across as very unstable. If he loves you and not the other girl why doesn’t he leave her and be with you? How long you hold a candle for him is your business, but his behavior indicates, at least from what you’ve said, that all he’s giving you is lip service. Tell him that when he’s ready to do more than talk and cry to give you a call.

Answer 5

If he really loved you.. then he would be with you. I would just leave him alone, it sounds to me like he just wants you to keep hanging on to him. It's time for you to move on and be happy!