What would you do if your friend's significant other came on to you?

Question

What would you do if your friend's significant other came on to you?

Answer 1

You need to tell her. I mean he knows y'all are friends. If he can come on to you knowing that the two of you are friends no telling what running around on her he is doing. And if he tells her that he came on to you she is going to be pissed that you didn't. If she is a real friend she will believe you.   If not just show her this. I hope the best for you and your friend.

Answer 2

well,it depends on how he "came onto you".

if it was over a text message,or online then i would just try to ignore it and laugh it off.

but if it was in person,and it was obvious then you need to tell your friend.

and also tell the guy that you dont feel comfortable with that,and for him not to do it again.

Answer 3

Tell your friend but NEVER do anything with the guy.  

Answer 4

my friends dad came on to his wife's sister!  

Answer 5

just tell her it depends on how good of a relationship you guys have that she will believe you.  

Answer 6

I was in this situation once and I made out with the guy. I never said anything but he told her. She hated me when she found out. It was 8 years ago and I am still friends with her. She has moved on and does not really care any more.

Best thing is to just not do anything with him and don't ever tell her. If you have done something wait until he says something to her. If she asks why you did not tell her just tell her that you did not want to hurt her.  

Answer 7

I'd tell my friend, right then and there.

Answer 8

If she wasn't too obvious I would just ignore it and act like I didn't get the signals.  If she were blatant about it I would tell her to knock it off.  I would NOT go to my friend and tell him.  Forcing a friend to choose to believe me or his significant other would not work out too well.  Besides if she is coming on to me she is probably coming on to others or will, so let those people be the problem in my friend's relationship.  That way I can still be a friend when he needs me most instead of dealing with a bunch of emotional baggage between us that wasn't my fault in the first place.  If she ever tells him that she came on to me and he asks me why I didn't tell him I would say something like "Nothing happened and I thought she was kidding" or "She was drunk at the time so I let it slide" or even "I knew I would never do anything to betray our friendship and she's your wife.  I didn't tell you out of respect for you love for her."