What would you do if your husband cheated on you with another married marine and abandoned you and your child?

Question

I filed papers last month, but what if your marine husband cheated on you with another married marine, beat you up, is trying to take everything (money, house, car and everything else) forcing you to use credit cards so you & your child can suvive,destroyed your career(made me lose my job), your credit(got collections accounts from him & made our home go into forclosure) & abandoned you & your child for the married woman marine, who he is now going to get an apartment with, & everytime keep going to court to fight for justice, nothing is done because they look at he is in the marine corp, and his command is not doing anything about their relationship, and they are cleaning up the mess because they were suppose to have done something a long time ago and they didn’t, and he doens't care about his child, and he has another child from another woman that he doesn't care about either, and he has phyco problems but he doesn't want to go to therapy, and then get kicked out, what would you do?

Answer 1

WHAT WOULD I DO? I DON'T KNOW BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU EXPERIENCE IT YOURSELF.  YOU HAVE IT VERY HARD AND MAYBE YOU DON'T SEE THE END OF IT BUT SOMEHOW IT WILL WORK OUT. GET A JOB, SURVIVE AND CONTINUE YOUR LIFE THE BEST YOU CAN.

Answer 2

Hire a hitman.

Answer 3

Call him and tell him to eff off

Answer 4

Suck it up until you've hired a good lawyer.

Answer 5

I'd find a bigger, meaner Marine to kick his ***!

Answer 6

First of all stand up and fight rather than be a victim...

Second, I would contact his commanding officer as they do have rules and guidelines to follow and seek out help or support within his own..trust me its there you just need to find it....

Third... fight back.. no one is forcing you to do anything only God can do that but continue to be a good mother and start making him pay for it...

**Now do not commit any illegal acts as this is not what I am telling you to do but been there done that and I know you have to fight back*** The justice system will see this once you do.

**Go to a legal aid in your area and lay it on thick either they will help you or refer you to someone that can***

MOST OF ALL stop making yourself a victim and STAND up wipe off the tears and fight back use the info you posted for your defense and his demise********************

Answer 7

sad i don't he really loved u i think he was in love with s*x and when u can give him no more he has found it somewhere else it is sad really but hang in there girl God has a plan for u and your baby it will come right and he will come back and then u can give the hot iron  between the ...... .

Answer 8

Run very fast.  Find help in a women's support group.  I'm so sorry for you, but get your child away from there in a hurry. Good Luck

Answer 9

FIRST OF ALL GO TO HEAD OF THE DEPARTMENT IN POLICE AND FILE A COMPLAINT IF YOU DID SO THEN AFTER GO TO YOUR PARENT IN LAWS AND LET THEM KNW WHAT HAPPENING  IS THERE ANY WITNESS YOU HAVE EXCEPT YOUR KIDS YOU KNOW NEIGHBOURS RELATIVES OR ANY DOCTERS

GET THEM  INVOLVED TOO AND THEN TAKE HIM TO COURT PROBABLY THIS WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBALEM  AND CHARGE HIM WITH ANY KIND OF ATTEMPT TO HARM YOU SHOW SOME WOUNDS DECIEVED YOU AND GET HIS MONEY  AND EVERYTHING YOU DESERVE THEN LET SEE WHAT GONA HAPPEND  IF THIS DOES'NT SOLVE THEN ONLY ONE THING PRAY TO LORD

Answer 10

Make it public.  Take it to the paper.  If you embarrass hie command then they have to act on it.

Answer 11

First I would contact their CO because I don't want them woking for me!  This is also against regulations and would affect their careers.

Answer 12

I'd go to his marine commandant and tell him everything. He will be in serious trouble.

Answer 13

man thats deep u need a good lawyer and fight fight fight or put some voodoo on his ***

Answer 14

Get an excellent divorce lawyer, and take him for everything he's got.....Really, I mean it.  The very best lawyer you can find.  If you win, then your husband will have to pay the lawyer anyway.  So do it.  Don't think about it, just do it.  Trust me.  Been there.  And do everything your lawyer tells you to do.....

Answer 15

Abandon him and find anther right man. Believe when one door coles, another door in your life will open before you .

Answer 16

Men do not deserve us.

They think they can just push us around!

You wonder why us women become L*****n!

Because of men!

We are sick of their c**p!

Them thinking they can just treat us like ****!

I'm sick of it!

They think they are sooo great!

But they are not!

We birth their children!

We give them love!

We do thing for them!

But what do they give us?

Nothing but s*x! s*x and their ****!!!!!

I am SO sick of it!!!

We do SO much for them that they shouldn't even be here!

I hate it when I hear things like this happen!

We women cant be perfect!

So stop expecting us to be!

And stop treating us like we are your hookers!!!!!

Answer 17

DAM!!.. you have a complicated life

Answer 18

Get a good civilian attorney, also go to the base attorney, contact his commanding officer in person and his commanding officer's direct commander as well. Keep going up the ladder. I know, and you know, that they cannot "cover it up" or "ignore it". If the other marine is married, form a co-op with that ex if possible and attack from both directions. You CAN get his paycheck garnished to provide for his child.

Answer 19

cut off his balls, then put everything he owns out on the street and let people come along and take it. And then auction his most prized posession off on ebay for 10 cents.