What would you do if your husband or wife was having s*x with another person?

Question

What would you do if your husband or wife was having s*x with another person?

Answer 1

when my ex was having s*x with the other woman,it was apparent to me he no longer loved me, so rather then suffer more rejection and heartache i filed for divorce and got out of the marriage.having s*x with someone other than ones mate is wrong, it hurts the other person, and destroys the marriage. betrayal is something i don't believe one can ever get over.love given to another when your married, tells how much your loved, and respected. if they give that special thing to someone else, its not yours anymore.  

Answer 2

Empy the bank account & turn off all utilties and leave.

Answer 3

I removed myself from his life completely. The betrayal; and the lies were more than I could tolerate.

Answer 4

Well that another person should be me however he will be gone poof.

Answer 5

without me knowing... hmmm i think that is what you mean.. think we would be getting divorced very very soon.  

Update 1:

- just read Emily's answer.. now if my wife and Emily, for example, were there.. Then all is well!  But another guy.. yeah back to divorce..  

Update 2:

- and now i see Dani is there.. this could work!

Answer 6

I agree with Emily, Stevesq, Dani.

Answer 7

That happened. I forgave him, and said I was willing to try to make it work out between us.

2yrs later we are still trying to piece our marriage together - but finally it seems there is light at the end of the tunnel.

If they love you sincerely (and you love them as much), it was a mistake, and they acknowledge it, wish to make amends, and never communicate to that other person again...then I would suggest trying to find it in your heart to forgive them.

Anything less than that, and I am sorry to say the best option is probably for you to walk. Life is beautiful, don't live it under the shadow of someone who unapologetically abuses your trust.

Answer 8

I would divorce them  

Answer 9

I would beat the living cells out of her Puerto Rican style!!! And him well he knows me very well.....and it would not be over until I get payback baby! And of couse theeen a divorce. But just because divorce is in it does not mean I will leave him alone. I would make his entire life miserable until he goes crazy and Finally Die!!!  

Answer 10

Kill the other person and make him wish he was dead.

Answer 11

there will be police and rescue the to pick up what was left of the guy  

Answer 12

I'd join in

Answer 13

So funny how everyone says they would leave the person, yet in reality when someone finds their spouse has been cheating on them most go to counselling and try to save their (destroyed) marriage!!!  Why?? The right answer is to move on.. the stupid action that most make is "stay together for the kids".. so weak!

Answer 14

i would divorce him thats what i would do.

Answer 15

I would leave

Answer 16

break it off.

not only between them but with

us as well.

thats an obvious.  

Answer 17

Infidelity to me is the ONE thing I could NEVER forgive...and the same goes for my husband.

Answer 18

I would do everything in my power to make her suffer.

Answer 19

I'd call my lawyer & take everything he's got.  

Answer 20

I did, I kick her to the curb and got a divorce. One time is enough for me, one strike you're out!

Answer 21

I'd pack his things and tell him he's a dumba** for choosing another woman over his family. He'd be gone!

Answer 22

LEAVE!

P.s. Thanks for the two free points! :P

Answer 23

Take pictures.

Now that's funny I don't care who you are

Answer 24

I would leave him and take everything he loved from him.

Answer 25

That is grounds for a divorce I would be out of there quick.

Answer 26

I'd probably flip out into a violent rage against my husband.  As far as his mistress, I would determine whether or not she knew about me.  The answer to that question would determine if she walked away or was carried away by ambulance.  Upon my release from jail, and the successful completion of anger management classes, I would try to patch things up with what was left of my husband, until I finally came to my senses and realized that no matter how hard I tried, I could never forgive him for cheating on me.

Answer 27

beat his freaking brains out and send her packing.

Answer 28

After marriage counseling, and trying to forgive and forget unsuccessfully, I divorced him.

Answer 29

Pack their bags and leave them at the curb, change the lock on the door and tell them bother me no more!

Answer 30

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