What would you do if your teenage daughter came to you and said....?

Question

....."Mummy, Daddy, I'm pregnant"

What would you do? Kill her or kill the baby?

Lol.

Answer 1

I would laugh, and say, You serious?

and if she was

then I'd faint.

Answer 2

Hopefully, I would have taught my daughter to not go around having s*x before marriage.

I would kill the baby. [Abortion]

Or

Make her marry the guy.

Edit: If she keeps the baby, lost her virginity [before marriage]..then who the h**l would want to marry her? I know I wouldn't if I was a guy..

Answer 3

i would slap her in her face!~

but if i had a daughter i would make sure she wudnt ever do it...

ima teen also...and i cant belive that pregnant teenaged girls are rising....there a bunch of teenage moms @ my skool....eww

Answer 4

What kind of monster would kill the baby? thats horrible.

I would be so so so infuriated with her, and i would make her feel bad.

but then i would help her raise the child and all that stuff.

Answer 5

neither ! i am not a killer !!

if i had a teenage girl i wouldn't let her do something haram like that !!

Answer 6

i guess you will snatch her boy friend and would become pregnant ! you know like daughter like mother..! all in the house,3 some ! all good for you ,,one family ;)

Answer 7

Prophet Muhammad ordered the death of the mother after the birth of the child, by stoning.

But most Muslims are more level headed.

Answer 8

I wouldn't kill my daghter for anything!

I'd have her get an abortion...if the father is a Muslim . I'd make sure they keep the baby and get married.

Other than that ...an abortion.

Answer 9

i would be angry, but of course you can't kill her and having an abortion is killing the baby, so, give the baby up.

Answer 10

my answer is;

I was a Father at 16.

I would question their intelligences and thought process's as my wife and I have Always been Open and Honest about Life, s*x and Rock & Roll with All of our children and their friends that ask us for the Truth. I would talk with her about her options (and Castrate the Boy).

In Europe, there isn't a "Teen Pregnancy" problem because of this type of Open & Honest communication.

hope my answer helps.

Answer 11

If the child had been though when she/he was small !!!

Then this would not had happened.

These days parents do ask what is u studing performence,

But Who cares for the life after?  

And if  the Love of allah had been in her heart, surly thre is no room for shatan  

Answer 12

unless she was raped what she did was haram -however killing her (honor killing)  or the baby (abortion) would be far more haram

I agree with the poster who said about finding the father and making him responsible. They could marry straight away so inshAllah their sin would be hidden. In sharia a baby born even after a 6 month pregnancy is considered legitamate.

Answer 13

probaby make her marry the guy

Answer 14

Murder is illegal. I would accept my daughter for who she is !i

Answer 15

talk to her about ABORTION!!! It is probably the right thing to do for you and your daughter! Lets face it...You'll end up raising it. However, It is important she decides for herself. I Mean is she 13 or 18....big difference. Maybe she would rather have the child and raise it herself, sacrificing her future for it. Maybe she would rather give it up for adoption, which will be hard on her physically and emotionally, and possibly compromise her future (cant go to school when your puking your guts out or in the hospital). Or have an Abortion...which is unfortunately looked at in a negative way. This would save you and her from having a child, raising a child, and dropping out of school to support that child (which will inevitably happen). It would also keep a child from being born to a mother who is not yet ready to become a mother. Abortion is not murder and your daughter will surely have learned from this the hard way. Kill the (fetus) its not a baby yet!

Answer 16

If that happened there is a LOT to consider.

This would be a very scary situation to be in and InshaAllah one we wont have to face.

Answer 17

Astagfirullah.

I would just ask her who the father is and go with her to talk to him and his parents. If his parents are not applicable then her me and him would sit down and speak clearly about all of it. If he is not applicable then she got some splainin to do. Then we got some more education to get about life. And I would be there for her 100% and made sure that she would repent for her sins. And tell her that we have control of our actions but only Allah has control of our consequences.

And Allah, Glory be to Allah, is MOST MERCIFUL.

peace

Answer 18

I would do neither.  If I was able to I would help her raise the baby, if I was not then we would choose adoption.  She made a mistake and neither she nor the baby deserve death.  Anyone who thinks they do has some serious mental problems and should run to the nearest therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist and get some help.

Answer 19

why would we have this killing in mind!!!

there are many ways to deal with it!!!

But May allah(swt) save All muslimahs from this kind pregnancy!!