What would you do if your wife is faaithful but you believe she is in love with another maan?

Question

What would you do if your wife is faaithful but you believe she is in love with another maan?

Answer 1

Then she is not faithful.  You don't have to be physically intimate to be unfaithful.  You can have an emotional attachment to another man and be an adulterer.  You can cheat in more ways than one........it starts in your heart and mind.......those are the worst cases

Answer 2

3 ways are nice if you are into that sort of thing

Answer 3

This happens all the time. There are some women that find their marriage very dull (at times) and will go looking for someone to make it exciting again. Wrong move! She may not be in love with another man, just in love with the IDEAL that he can make her feel young and good again. That's your job. Get busy before she actually thinks she is in love with someone else. You can change her mind or remind her, your the one and only!

Answer 4

Ask her, communication is the only way to keep a happy relationship.

Answer 5

I would ask myself why I have a wife in the first place...

Answer 6

nothing you can do - if she is in love with another man then possibly you should talk to her about this b/c why is she staying with you? Also, if she is in love with another man and hasn't cheated yet - it's coming soon.  

Answer 7

Then she isn't going to stay faithful for long. Brace yourself for some choppy waters.

Answer 8

You cannot control what goes on in her heart, so be happy that she's being faithful to you.  She might still be in love with an ex, but he's an ex for a reason.  Remember that she chose you.  If she's fallen in love with someone after you two were married, then it's probably not real love, only lust.  Again, you're the one she married. :-)

Answer 9

Start treating her like a boyfriend would. Start flirting with her again.

Answer 10

aare you paart goaat? baa

Answer 11

Run!!! You will never be happy.

Answer 12

If that's the case, why don't you try your best to make your wife love you instead of the other man.

I mean, you should show her that you really love her maybe by then she'll realize that she should love you also rather than the other man you were saying.

I do believe that love can be learned and if you learn to love a person it will also be hard to forget about him/her. So don't lose hope and give it a try..Goodluck!!!

Answer 13

I don't necessarily know that she IS being faithful, even if she's not seeing or having s*x with this other man.

I think that if she's in love with someone else, that's emotionally taking away from your marriage and union.  That's not fair to you, as her husband, to have to deal with getting less of a commitment or less love from your wife.  I feel that, in itself, is being unfaithful.  That's just me, though.  (And I just asked my hubby -- he said the same thing.)

I'd confront her, and ask her how she's feeling.  Tell her you'd like things to work out between the two of you (if that's true) and ask her to just be completely open and honest.  You two need to have a talk about what you both want and where your relationship is going.  Just remember, you married 'til death do you part...

Good luck.

Answer 14

I think you have to tell us why you think she is in love with another man..But how can she be faithful and in love with another man.  In order to experience love wouldn't she have to have a relationship?  I'm just saying....Let us know..and good luck.