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What would you do in a situation like this???

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You have been talking to a person for about 3 months and things have been going really smooth...you hit it off really good and realize that this other person really likes you for you and you are developing feelings see a possible long term relationship and yall have respect for each other. This other person has been very patient when it comes to going to bed and yall have yet to have s*x but you find out it's because they have Herpes and didn't want to tell you at first...or until they got to know you well enough

What would you do?

Would you stop talking to someone because of this or would you give it a shot?

I want this to be a poll yes or no...opinions still welcome

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I would respect that person for wanting to tell u, no i wouldn't stop talking to them.
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To Brittany who answered that herpes will go away in time and to give this person a chance is very bad advice. Herpes does not go away. Once you have it, it lays dormant in your system and you could crop up with an outbreak of the sores at anytime. If you are serious about this person you should both sit down with a physician and they will talk to you about the risks of them passing this nasty virus along to you. This person may be able to take certain drugs to reduce the amount of outbreaks but they will ALWAYS have herpes. Don't kid yourself. Get the real facts. Talk to a doctor!
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NO U SHOULDNT. JUST WAIT N E WAY, WHATS THE RUSH ON HAVING s*x??
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He's been decent enough to tell you before you've done anything.

Some guys wouldn't have done that.

He needs to get treatment first and then he'll be fine.

I wouldn't stop talking to him - he didn't ask to have herpes.

I think you should give it a shot - he sounds like he respects you.
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Most women who find the "nice guy" realize he's not the one. Women need a little fight and jerk in them for the long haul.

This guy is the "nice guy"

And the "nice guy" always finishes last..

Oh and just stay away from the herpes..
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NO. First, they need to get treatment!

If they give you herpes as a "good-bye" gift, then what are you going to do?
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thats gross you seem cool though, you can do better than that.. can you answer mine please? i wouldnt give you herpes :) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
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I would not stop talking no... but I would stop dating yes.
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I think it is normal what they did - no one with herpes wants to just come out and say "Hi. I have herpes" on the first few dates...they now feel comfortable enough with you to share that information and they DID share it before you had s*x, which was the right thing to do. I'm in the health care field and I can tell you that herpes is NOT the big monster that people make it out to be - it can be controlled, and studies have shown that suppressive therapy can actually lower the risk of transmission as well.....so you can still have a normal s*x life, just use protection. I say if they are a good person, make you happy, don't let it be an issue. Good luck!
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if it was true love, id never leave him.

please answerr mineee http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
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yes, i would stop talking to them. i feel a little shallow for saying so, but that's just my honest truth.
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If you feel that you can handle being with someone in that condition. just protect yourself!
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they ll go away in time, this person sounds worth it. i say give them a chance.
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