What would you do in my position?

Question

I met this guy in may and he took my sunglasses to prove to him I would meet him again as they were valuable to me. We were both single, but he had just come out of a long relationship. We saw each other for a while then we kinda just broke off for no reason 6 weeks ago and I haven't seen him since. I have spoke to him twice on IM but we just ended up arguing.

Now, last night his ex rang me, except by the sounds of it they're back together. She was asking why my number was on her boyfriends phone. I don't know whether she's lying or not because she used to harass me on bebo about being with him and stuff, so she could just be making it up.

Anyways, hes on line now, and hasn't spoken to me, but should I say something like I want my sunglasses back and then tell him about the call or what? ..The thing is i've used the sunglasses thing as an excuse to talk to him a few times.. I would buy a new pair but their not actually mine they're my mums!

Answer 1

Best advice give your MUM the name and address of the bloke who pinched HER sunglasses And forget him, he's a waste of your time.

Answer 2

Get your glasses back, but leave the guy behind.

Answer 3

Get the sunnies back then forget about them.

Answer 4

say please can you drop my sunglasses off or give them too someone who will give them too me seeing as your (not the kind of guy who keeps promises.) or something else in the ( ) FIGHT FOR YOUR SUNGLASSES!

Answer 5

Maybe you shouldn't have given away someonelses expensive stuff, now you'll be in trouble.

Answer 6

Tricky Situation

I'd Talk To Him Calmly

And Try Not To Argue,

But Just Ask For The Sunglasses Back

Orr Buy A New Pair Identical To The Ones That He Took,

Sorryy Babess

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Answer 7

ask for the sunglasses back then don't talk to him again

Answer 8

Buy the same type of sunglasses they were & walk straight away from this guy.

Answer 9

I think you should talk to him start talking about the glasses and then tell him what happend with his ex and how you feel about it.

Answer 10

Id walk away from this toxic situation. Find new glasses, and new guy.