I was friends with this girl for almost all our lives,(I am 2 years older than her) anyways, we were really close and everyone said we were best friends. we live on the same block so we got to hang out with each other a lot. With friendships we had hit a few rough spots and then we smoothed them over. Until about 2 almost three years ago. We has some neighbors move in and we all hung outside and together and had gotten close and would do everything together. She liked the eldest brother lets just call him B. and I liked his friend D. Things didn't work out with me and his friend and about 6 months later I started to like B. The problem was she liked B before I did, so we talked things out and agreed it was ok for us to both let it be and let things happen. I finally got the courage to ask him out and he said no, and not even 2 hours later she asks him out and he said yes, I was heart broken so I didn't talk to them for a while, but once again we fixed things up. a couple months later in the summer, she tells me its my turn to go out with him since I didn't have competition anymore. Then during christmas I get a text saying you called me anorexic, which I would NEVER do and that she is pissed that I am talking about her behind her back, I made the effort to be the best friend I could be and I couldn't believe that she would say that. she continues to say that she rather believe a rumor than believe me, I apologized so many times even though I never said anything, and she just kept bad mouthing me and ignoring me and stopped talking to me. I kept trying to ask her what did I do and all I got was you know what you did. She started getting into drugs, so I think that was a factor, and I have seen things where it shows that she is on drugs. So do you think it was right of me to apologize even though I never said that? And was it right of her to just accuse me of that even though she wouldn't listen to me? I don't know why she was so offended, either If I did unless there was some truth. ( Which again I didn't ever call her that)
Also was it right for me to give up on trying to be her friend? I don't want to make it for the neighborhood and myself so what should I do?
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