we have the oppurtunity to foster our two month old niece, her mother is a drug addict and the baby was born addicted, her mother has not been heard from since April 27th and the baby needs to be placed in foster care, we would like to adopt her, but since the mother is no where we really don't know how she feels about it, we do know the mother is still using and living on the streets....my question is: WOULD YOU FOSTER THE BABY...WAIT AND SEE IF SHE CAN BE ADOPTED FIRST OR DO IT NOW FOR THE BABIES BENEFIT, we are just worried of making complete lifestyle changes just for the mother to come and rip her out of our arms, would you foster her either way, why or why not...we meet with the social worker tommorow
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it is almost fate, we have been trying to conceive for over a year, my husband does have a 13 year old that we have in the summer.....I am ready to make the changes neccesary, but unlike when you are pregnant and have 7-10months to plan for a baby we have like 2 weeks, so that is what makes it a bit scary...if that's the right word I don't know we are excited and ready to give her all of the love we can no matter what the out come is, her mom has been on the streets for 4+ years, using and prostituting, so our chances of getting her are high, her mother has tried to get clean and she is 9 weeks old....but maybe god willing she will get clean and then we will have a niece, if not then a daughter.....
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