What would you do/say if you walked in on your 14 year old making-out with her boyfriend on her bed?

Question

This is just a hypothetical sistuation.

Answer 1

Not being allowed alone in a room without another person besides the two of them.

Answer 2

Beat the kid within an inch of his life. Set an example early on in her teenage years.

Answer 3

O.K. so im 14 too and I totally have dreams and stuff about making out. Give her the s*x talk and tell her no boys in her room period. Itll scare her straight (s*x talk) trust me. Give her some credit/freedoms though, its really hard.

Answer 4

First they wouldn't be allowed to be in her room to begin with let alone with the door shut.Case closed.

Answer 5

please dont kill him..  

Answer 6

You mean what would I say AFTER I Whipped her A*S*S all over the house for showing utter DISRESPECT of our home?  

Answer 7

um talk to her................ ~xoxo ally*

Answer 8

I'd put on my shock face which looks like this

O.o

then I would be like "shock face!"

Then I would be a bit angry

and then i would make fun of her for it later

and be like "did it taste gooood?"

lol

cuz that what i do

Answer 9

walk back out, they arent having s*x.. so leave them alone.

just make sure she's well aware of how wrong it is to have s*x at this age.

Answer 10

WOW. couldn't u leave the house first?

seriouslt, why would u do that with ur parents home?

Answer 11

i'd tell him to leave and tell her that that's inappropriate. he shouldn't even be in her room

Answer 12

Well I mean it's just making out. What would you want your parents to do if you were 14 and they caught you making out? You'd probably be embarassed. So I say just don't talk about it until everyone is calm again, and then casually say "No guys in your bedroom. Don't argue." and let that be that.  

Answer 13

This happened to me...(i'm fifteen)...except me and my boyfriend were doing a little more than making out. We were at my aunts house, my aunt had had an emergency call from work and when she left, I called my boyfriend over. My aunt wallked in on us, and called my mom. My mom went CRAZY. I have never seen my mom madder than she was that night. She jerked me out to the car so fast that my head was literally spinning, I still havent gained my moms trust back and this was months ago.

Answer 14

talk to your daughter.

but- DO NOT jump to conclusions.

don't think she is having s*x!

also- dont ban her some seeing him, it'll make things worse.

just talk to her about her relationship & about s*x.

also- i would make an effort to make that when they are in a bedroom or something that the door stays open.

goodluck!