What would you do to a 7 yr child who's very stubborn; never obeys the parents & hits the mom at times?

Question

What would you do to a 7 yr child who's very stubborn; never obeys the parents & hits the mom at times?

Answer 1

Spank that childs butt send him to his room and tell him he can't come out until he can behave like a good boy ...but just don't do this once do this each time he acts up...he'll learn and stop.... if you don't go in and baby him..

Answer 2

Tear That Booty Up!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Call Nanny 911 and hope she straightens him out.

Answer 4

Beat her! LOL....j/k people!

Seriously though, a good swat on the behind can do a lot of good if used with other forms of discipline and positive reinforcement. This child has obviously lacked any kind of discipline growing up.....so why should she behave? There's no consequences to her actions. It's time to get tough, really tough! Take her stuff away, ground her, lecture her till her face turns blue, tell her bad-influence friends to take a hike. Parenting isn't about being a friend, it's about shaping lives. Time to step up!

EDIT: Sorry if the child you're referring to is a boy.......I have 3 daughters so I always call kids "her"LOL. Force of habit.

Answer 5

If you are the parent, you need to start punishing in an effective and consistent way, for example, where it hurts the most.  For some, that would be time out; for others, taking away a privilege or a toy, perhaps even a spanking (NOT a beating), whatever will kindly but firmly get the point across.  But never yell or abuse your kid. That will only make things worse.  A child should never, ever be allowed to hit their parents.  That's totally unacceptable behaviour. Keep in mind the kid knows that they are in the wrong, and a child feels very insecure when they aren't given appropriate boundaries.

If you are not the parent, I'm afraid there isn't a whole lot you can do, unless the parents ask for advice.   Those who don't want help can seldom be helped, especially adults.

Answer 6

i would spank that child i said spank not beat there is a difference

Answer 7

i ll tell him to obey themm,,,,, lolz

Answer 8

Make rules and be consistent.  They got away with it once, so they keep on trying to get away with things.  My son was the same way, and it was because I was getting too relaxed with the rules.  I felt bad because we had family issues to deal with and I let him get away with more stuff.  Being too nice isn't doing them any favors, and it doesn't make them like you more.  They have to know that they can't break, or bend the rules and they will follow them.  As far as spanking goes, spank them if you want to, or don't.  As long as the punishment bothers them enough, it doesn't matter.

Answer 9

tell him thats not the way to behave wiyh elders and when ever he hits somebody try avoiding him then he will learn

Answer 10

FEED HIM LIVER EVERDAY UNTIL HE GET THE MESSAGE.  TAKE AWAY ALL OF HIS TOYS.  ALL CARTOONS.  TAKE AWAY ALL GAMES.  ALL TREATS.

SIT HIM IN A CHAIR AND MAKE HIM TELL YOU WHAT HE IS DOING WRONG AND WHAT HE IS GOING TO DO ABOUT.  Then CASTER OIL for his attitude.

Answer 11

Its unprofessional of me to suggest this but small smack on the bum. Not hard but so he/she feels it.

if not then take away toys, no privileges such as cartoons and favourite meals until they get the message.

Answer 12

hit him back harder

but not wear it bruises him

and tell him no=]

time outs would be nessisarie-?

Answer 13

I know a lot of people don't want to hear this but spanking a child that hits really does make the child think hitting is ok. You just have to be very consistant with rewarding good behavior and taking away priviledges/giving appropriate time outs when he misbehaves. It sound like he knows this is behavior he can get away with right now. All of the adults in his life are going to have to be on the same page as far as disipline and it will be hard work. No one wants to chase an unruly seven year old around the house and keep putting them back in time out but this kid is going to try to break whatever adult is in charge.....you guys are going to have to be more willfull than he is. It won't be fun but it has to be done.

Answer 14

GIVE HIM A SPANK AND A TIME OUT, THEN WHEN TIME OUT IS DONE START A STICKER CHART, WHEN EVER HE IS GOOD, GIVE HIM A STICK AND AT THE END OF THE MONTH TALLY UP HIS AMOUNT THEN HE HAS THAT MUCH MONEY TO SPEND ON A NEW TOY, OR HE COULD SAVE UP FOR SOMETHING MORE. WILL WORK LIKE A CHARM AND WILL TEACH HIM THE VALUES OF BEING GOOD AND MONEY, ALSO GOOD WAY TO HAVE FUN AND BE GOOD AT THE SAME TIME.