Ok, here's the story. My fiance's mother is raising her daughter's 3 children because she passed when her last child was only 2 weeks old and the children's father has been in prison. The oldest child is 14, he's completely out of control! We are at the end of the rope, we have no idea as of what to do anymore, what our options are or anything. My fiance and his family are black, we reside in a white neighborhood mostly, it's hard enough on his family now as it is, but his nephew is making it worse. White people are already rude enough to black folks (NOT ALL, but some, most in my town.. ) and when they see cops constantly at his mothers house, it's giving her a bad image. It's gotten out of control. It's so bad that when the boy walks out of the house down the street and stops to talk to one of his "friends", cops swarm in. My fiances mother is embarrassed. She's a church going woman who feels like she's failed somewhere down the line. She's tried everything. He's only 14, but yet sells drugs, steals money, bikes, jewelry, prescription pills.. etc. My fiance and I are in our early 20's and we haven't done half the stuff he's done. The cops won't do anything about it, they won't send him to juvie! Kinda makes me wonder why not because if it was any one of us, we would have been locked up in a heartbeat. He just stole $1,000 and a watch from some man than punched his daughter in the mouth than ran... it SHOCKS me because I do not expect that from a 14 yr. old child. What are some idea's to help us? Some serious idea's? We need major help. Cops won't send him anywhere.. She can't send him to military boot camp because he has no "record" and/or isn't willing to go.. And we've tried talking some sence into him but we've made ourselves blue in the face.
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