What would you do when your finance contacts your former spouse without your consent? ?

Question

What would you do when your finance contacts your former spouse without your consent? ?

Answer 1

Depends on intentions.

Just to say hi, how kids doing, making amends (didn't get along before)......anything that is innocent...I wouldn't care. After all, it would be innocent.

If he is calling to get dirt/info about the marriage (why it ended for example).  I would talk to him and see what is going on.

I don't think he should have to ask permission; however, I think he should make you aware of it at least if he is looking for info/dirt about the marriage you two once shared. Sounds like there would be trust issues if that was the case.

Answer 2

My fiance does it all the time. He and my ex grew up together. It's not a problem for me. I am thankful they can still be friends.

Answer 3

Just like an employer getting a reference. Sounds like a good idea to me. Do you have something to hide?

Answer 4

depends on the reason.