What would you feel if your husband cheated you?

Question

And her grilfriend is your sister, Are you going to leave him or forgive him.

Answer 1

I want to tell you leave. I would be so mad and hurt by both of them that I would want to never see either of them again.

On the other hand - do you think your marriage can be saved? Do you have children to consider? If so you owe it to your marriage and/or children to try to make it work. I mean actually seek counseling and make changes in your lives to prevent this from happening again.

I am sorry this happened to you. You have to be feeling pretty awful right now.  

Answer 2

Leave him.  If he did it once then he'll do it again.

Answer 3

I would get rid of him immediately, because cheating is just telling you that he doesn't love you and you cannot stay happily married to a man that doesn't love you.  

Answer 4

I can't say that I know how I would feel. I am going through this with my so called best friend. She is currently with my ex-husband, whom I have no feelings at all for. But the problem is that my ex-husband is her husbands brother. So it is all really gross to me. I care about her but I don't know how she could do this to her husband. I think that if someone cheated on me that I would maybe forgive them in my heart but I would not want to continue the relationship. The thought will always be in the back in your head. Are you ready to live like that for the rest of your life? I don't think I would.  

Answer 5

Divorce for him and disowning your sister with a tight slap on her face.

Answer 6

leave

Answer 7

Leave the ***

Answer 8

Since you have a feeling first you need to confront them or show them whatever proof you have.  

If there is something going on leave and get a divorce.

Answer 9

Leave immediately...i don't like hanging onto someone who's not mine anymore.

Answer 10

WTH............Leave.  

Answer 11

Leave him

Answer 12

wtf! are you serious if he cheats on me with my sister i would leave his ***!

Answer 13

I would feel totally betrayed by them both, especially with my sister!  I would be devastated.

This is more tricky than if he had cheated with someone else.

I would talk to them both but separately when I am calmer; to the husband first (he is the 'chosen' family) and sister second (she is family by default).  Understand how this happen (not the drama nor gory detail, I don't want to know that, thanks) & why this happened is the key.

May be I would leave him, may be I would keep him. May be I would  cut/minimise contact with her as she may do this again with my future partner.  It would all depends on their answers.

Are you the sister or are you the wife?  Are you just curious, looking at other people's lives?

Answer 14

Don't take this!!! You can do better so  leave him. Hes done it now so what to stop him doing it again??????????

Answer 15

To stay with a cheater is to die a thousand small deaths.  Better to just have a zero tolerance policy.

Answer 16

Leave the f**ker!!!!

Answer 17

leave him - he aint worth anything! nor is ya sister!!1

Answer 18

Oh Nooo,how dare he a sister ,,i have been cheated before by my husband with a stranger i was hurt en took 3yrs to forgive but a sister can hurt much much more,hey  give ur sister  a good blow she should respect you ,that funny

Answer 19

Its not a straight forward situation as family is involved. Firstly talk to your sister, see how she feels. Secondly do you still love him? If so time heals all wounds, mabe a partial separation where he's not allowed to contact you for say 2 months. Either absence makes the heart grow fonder or he's a real sleeze bag.

Talk to a councillor and focus only on yourself. I've been there, still going through the motions since I found my husband cheating. Keep strong girl. Best of luck!

Answer 20

it depends do you still trust him???? if you dont then dont even bother because it will always sit on the back of your mind and you ll always think about it but if you do and if you think that he realy wont do it again then i suggest counseling

Answer 21

Well, just knowing where he has been poking his pen** should answer that question.