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What would you say in this situation?

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I had this bestfriend and I told him a sceret that could ruin me and my other friends relationship. I trusted him enough that he wouldnt tell but then he randomly got mad at him and started telling everyone eveerything i ever said about them. Including that one friend. Whats something really good i can say to him so that he just leaves me alone.

it has to include..

i trusted you

i never want to be your friend again

please help me!

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  1. Oh little jj… let me take something I said to you earlier back.  Don’t grow up; time will take care of that for you.  You’re a child and I thought you were a little older than I imagined.  So I apologize for making those uncalled for comments about your maturity level and life experience.  I hope in time you’ll be able to answer your own questions and not find yourself in turmoil.  Good luck with your "friend" issue!  I hope they see you for what you truly are.  


  2. Integrity is worth more that any virtue, if this person does not understand that it is his loss,not yours,  it is best to know this now, because it could have caused more intense a situation to have occurred.  The old saying "lOOSE LIPS SINKS SHIPS".

  3. Just tel lhim that he is not your friend and walk away

  4. 20/20 hindsight, but this should warn you never to tell anyone's secrets. In the future, just keep stuff to yourself. Your friends trusted you, so you should earn back that trust by telling them what you did and apologizing profusely. They'll be mad, but 100% honesty is the best way to go in this situation. They'll find out it was you, anyway. Who do you want them to hear it from - you or someone random?

    As for this guy you told, he's a douchebag for taking out his anger on you and people he knows. Tell him straight up that you didn't appreciate him being as rude as he was, and that next time when he's mad, he should come talk to you about it and try to work things out with you. After all, YOU are the one he's mad at, and YOU should be the only one that feels his wrath - not innocent people that aren't even involved.

    PS: Also, just a word of advice. Don't ever try to "get someone back." You'll start a vicious cycle of him getting you back, and the you get him back, and then... Just stop it before it gets out of hand.

    And anyway, It's more mature to say "I forgive you," than to go "NEENER NEENER I PUT YOUR UNDERWEAR ALL OVER THE SCHOOL HAHAHA!!!1"

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